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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Kinks and Fetishes |
| JKDavitz |
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Posted: 30 Jul 2013, 10:52 pm
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| The chances of being Aspie, and meeting a nice ordinary girl who is also excited to weald a whip and wear a shiny black bodice is absolutely zero. I dunno, I'd do that as long as it wasn't all I got to do. It's not something I'd need to do to have enjoyable sex, but I would still enjoy doing it. No... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Kinks and Fetishes |
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Posted: 29 Jul 2013, 3:53 am
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VIDEODROME wrote: I have a thing for spandex or nylon. It turns me on when I see women wearing Leggins or Jeggings type cloths.
same with me. i dont know why, either. maybe because it usually looks classy, yet shows the shape of their legs well. idk |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Kinks and Fetishes |
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Posted: 28 Jul 2013, 9:58 am
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OliveOilMom wrote: Ah ok, I had only read the OP and thought he was wondering where to meet kinky people. I didn't know we were telling our kinks. How much time ya got?
It's actually easier and quicker to say what I won't do.
well, it's for both really. for my problem and everyone else's |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Kinks and Fetishes |
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Posted: 28 Jul 2013, 3:29 am
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| Aspies have it hard enough on the dating world, but i imagine it's even harder with a kink or fetish. I'll come out and say it: I have a bondage kink. I like seeing women bound and gagged and other related stuff. How does an aspie deal with this added complication?... and if you're into something o... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Kinks and Fetishes |
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Posted: 28 Jul 2013, 2:27 am
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| Aspies have it hard enough on the dating world, but i imagine it's even harder with a kink or fetish. I'll come out and say it: I have a bondage kink. I like seeing women bound and gagged and other related stuff. How does an aspie deal with this added complication?... and if you're into something o... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Kinks and Fetishes |
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Posted: 23 Jul 2013, 11:54 pm
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| Aspies have it hard enough on the dating world, but i imagine it's even harder with a kink or fetish. I'll come out and say it: I have a bondage kink. I like seeing women bound and gagged and other related stuff. How does an aspie deal with this added complication?... and if you're into something od... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Not wanting to want it (but I can't help but want it) |
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Posted: 14 Nov 2012, 12:47 am
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Replies: 10
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| My solution to this was to accept the fact that it is (*for me*) pretty unlikely to have such a relationship, so I found things that filled my time pretty much completely, as a serious activity (eg. with a "perpetual" desire to get better in it) - I started playing technical styles of electric guit... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Not wanting to want it (but I can't help but want it) |
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Posted: 12 Nov 2012, 5:34 am
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| As a heterosexual male, I find myself desiring a meaningful and fulfilling relationship with a female. As an aspie, I find this incredibly difficult to accomplish this. Sure there are people, even females, who I can somewhat talk to, but my unfulfillable desire for female companionship hovers over m... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "It's Different Around Her" |
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Posted: 18 Sep 2012, 10:24 pm
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Replies: 7
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| Ask her out for coffee at a semi-busy location in the middle of the day or at an agreeable time. This seems to be the most common and most acceptable "first date" or "no pressure" meeting. Even if she turns you down, you could say "oh no, I didn't mean like that, I meant as friends." then smile and... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "It's Different Around Her" |
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Posted: 18 Sep 2012, 12:58 am
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| thanks guys, sounds like sound advice. but if i were to take the step further, how would i do that. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "It's Different Around Her" |
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Posted: 16 Sep 2012, 11:51 pm
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| So as an aspie, there's always an invisible barrier between me and the rest of society. I never have much to say, and when I do, I carry a conversation like a net carries water. Recently, I've taken up fencing at my university. Now there are friendly people who I can have small talk with if I'm luck... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: It's hard to look at attractive women. (PLEASE HELP) |
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Posted: 09 Sep 2012, 4:15 pm
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| Whether it's in my everyday life, or even in fictional material, it has become increasingly painful to look at attractive women most of the time. I guess my level of romantic frustration has just reached this point. I just wish that I had no romantic or sexual attraction whatsoever, just so it woul... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: It's hard to look at attractive women. (PLEASE HELP) |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2012, 5:59 pm
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| the above statement sounds reasonable enough. to me, though, the problem is my emotional turmoil when in such situations. As much as a big part of me wants nothing to do with romance and relationship, there's still that annoying part of me that won't drop the subject. I'm trying to get rid of my nee... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: It's hard to look at attractive women. (PLEASE HELP) |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2012, 12:47 pm
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| fictional material? If you're looking at porn, stop looking at it. It over-sexualizes your intentions with women and acts as a source of shyness and timidity. Its hard to talk to women you're attracted to while memories of hardcore images are being conjured up from the porn binge from the previous ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: It's hard to look at attractive women. (PLEASE HELP) |
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Posted: 07 Sep 2012, 7:26 pm
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Replies: 25
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| so i thought that i'd bring this topic back up to see if i can get anymore answers before it get buried...anyone... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: It's hard to look at attractive women. (PLEASE HELP) |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2012, 9:22 pm
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| Actually I can see why your afraid. You are afraid that even if they are single, you fear that there will be a guy who will possibly beat you down. Well first of all, if this guy violently attacked a man for just being polite and greeting his girlfriend. He should be in prison and spend time in ang... |
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