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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What are your Aspie/Autistic skills or talents? |
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Posted: 18 Nov 2013, 5:13 pm
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Replies: 118
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My Talent is drawing. I create fantasy-worlds to cope with the real world. Otherwise i bottle it up.
MMlab
The 2 pictures of the drawings are mine. The second and third picture.
(the one with the brainz) 
I hope you like it!
Greetz |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do higher functioning aspies have it worse in some ways? |
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Posted: 09 Dec 2012, 5:16 am
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Replies: 52
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| Having too much self-awareness can cause problems for a HFA Aspie too. I'm high-functioning and can appear ''normal'' to others, and that's good in some ways. But sometimes I can feel a little odd, what can confuse other people, and sometimes people look at me like they're trying to figure somethin... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Inner turmoil |
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Posted: 03 Dec 2012, 6:54 am
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| @fluxus I'm glad you replied. What do you recognize in my post, the endless thoughts? Or the inner turmoil? Thanks for the advice, you are not the first one to say that a stable relationship would help me. I think so too. Well, weed i have a love hate relationship with, 2 years ago i smoked way to m... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Inner turmoil |
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Posted: 02 Dec 2012, 12:08 pm
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Replies: 3
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| Hey you guys, i have a couple of questions. Do any of you get the feeling of an inner turmoil? I will try to give you examples. First i just want to start saying that i have "categorizes" the "feelings", from my own perspective. The pattern goes like this: Energy days/moments/ routine This is really... |
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Forum: Español, Nederlands, Deutsch, Français Topic: België |
| Xerofaan |
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Posted: 06 Nov 2012, 2:53 am
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Replies: 25
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| Hoi allen! Wel Lupus jou ken ik inderdaad, je bent de eerste met wie ik al heb afgesproken van de site. :) @DGPhantom ik heb je een mailtje gestuurd, het zou fijn zijn je te leren kennen, dus stuur gerust een mailtje terug om wat te babbelen :D @anonyme7700 Wat jammer dat je nu in het buitenland woo... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Letting friends go, and finding friends. |
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Posted: 11 Sep 2012, 1:36 pm
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Replies: 3
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| Hello guy, I have an issue with what i have been struggling with. I know that friends and acquaintances come and go, when you change school or work, or you move... But 2 years ago i suffers from a deep depression, because of the feeling no one was my real friend. (I Study architecture and i make art... |
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Forum: Español, Nederlands, Deutsch, Français Topic: België |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2012, 2:51 pm
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Replies: 25
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Hallo,
Ik vroeg mij af als er hier nog mensen waren van België?
Ik ben zelf van West-Vlaanderen, en zou graag in contact komen met mensen van Belgie.
Laat gerust iets van je horen.
Groeten
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Socializing when you were younger and socializing now |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2012, 2:39 pm
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Replies: 24
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Socializing when you were younger and socializing now |
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Posted: 02 Sep 2012, 3:21 am
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| Well VAGraduateStudent, I will tell my experience. When i was younger, i was a nice kid. I played with outer kids, and i could make friends by the material thing, like i said in the OP. I would always listen to music, and search for the emotion that i was feeling. If i had found it, i thought that i... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Socializing when you were younger and socializing now |
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Posted: 31 Aug 2012, 7:14 am
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Replies: 24
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| When I was younger, and we were all children, we would just play together because that was all we could do. as young adults, it has become more about respect, connections/status, experiencing new things As others said, social life with children revolves around a game or interest, but as you get,old... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Socializing when you were younger and socializing now |
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Posted: 31 Aug 2012, 7:11 am
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| Socializing was much easier when I was much younger. In fact, I even remember, around 14, my mum making a comment about how I was so outgoing when I was a little kid, and even up to a few years before that, and then things just changed. Around people I know a bit - slightly better than acquaintance... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Socializing when you were younger and socializing now |
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Posted: 27 Aug 2012, 7:49 am
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| i can relate to that too. my thing that got me by when i was younger was just simply being funny and making people laugh about stupid things like toiler humor and stuff like that. this used to earn me a lot of friends, respect, and plenty of socializing for the best of my interest until of course p... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Socializing when you were younger and socializing now |
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Posted: 27 Aug 2012, 7:37 am
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| I found it easier to socialise when I was younger too. Now when my cousins come round, they just sit about talking about their nights when they all meet eachother at the pub; who's going out with who, and who fell out with who, who got the most drunk, and so on. It all gets so boring, like can't th... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Socializing when you were younger and socializing now |
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Posted: 25 Aug 2012, 4:47 am
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Replies: 24
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| i can relate to that too. my thing that got me by when i was younger was just simply being funny and making people laugh about stupid things like toiler humor and stuff like that. this used to earn me a lot of friends, respect, and plenty of socializing for the best of my interest until of course p... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Socializing when you were younger and socializing now |
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Posted: 25 Aug 2012, 4:38 am
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| I think I can relate somewhat about the "things". All of my friends were made around "things" (not necessarily material). My first friend was made when I wanted to play tag. I didn't really care about the friend, I just wanted to play tag. Tag was the "thing", and I needed a "friend" to do it. Voil... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Socializing when you were younger and socializing now |
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Posted: 23 Aug 2012, 7:25 am
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Replies: 24
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| Hey you guys I have a question. When I was younger (I'm 24 now) socializing seemed so much easier. When I went to elementary school, I really loved it. Because I knew what I would or could do, and say. For example I grew up with a lot of "hypes". We used to play with marbles, so that became my inter... |
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