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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: You know whats not fair? |
| Pabbicus |
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Posted: 25 Jan 2014, 12:19 am
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Replies: 28
Views: 3,989
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| Its not fair that children are born with HIV, or that millions starve while 85 people own more than 3,500,000. The world sucks and its not fair and it never will be. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT women cant stand aspie men! |
| Pabbicus |
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Posted: 25 Jan 2014, 12:09 am
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Replies: 241
Views: 21,367
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| I dont like women much lately. None of themv ever like me. It makes me angry fairly often and sad the rest of the time because im trying to like me yet none of them will so its difficult to feel valuable. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: long distance relationships--(college focused)? |
| Pabbicus |
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Posted: 22 Jan 2014, 11:19 am
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Replies: 2
Views: 765
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| As long as you are honest with yourselves and can make something happen soon. If you just want the emotional closeness they'll just leave you, sometimes without saying anything so you worry that they're dead. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Guys only want one thing |
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Posted: 22 Jan 2014, 11:12 am
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Replies: 125
Views: 14,723
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| All men only want sex like all women only want liars and are incapable of loving anyone with flaws. Both are things we say to make ourselves feel better about our bad experiences. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: SO I lost the girl to another man. |
| Pabbicus |
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Posted: 20 Jan 2014, 11:34 am
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,177
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| Get used to it. Personal relationships are about NTs lying to you to get your material goods until theyre so sick of you that its not worth it to them anymore. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: girl at work (triggering thoughts and feelings) |
| Pabbicus |
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Posted: 01 Jan 2014, 6:21 am
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,332
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| Having had one relationship in my life, I'm not sure if I really want a relationship because I can't imagine enjoying it more than I hate it. I need long periods of time to myself and for people to handle the things I can't do, mostly strange things like saying certain words or not wanting to reply ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: OkCupid experiences? |
| Pabbicus |
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Posted: 01 Jan 2014, 5:21 am
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Replies: 128
Views: 8,508
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| If a girl really wants to know she will push for a meeting. I'm currently "chasing" someone on ok cupid to find out more about him, see if he might be compatible. There is someone else who I am interested in slightly but was a real tosser to me some years back. That is a "tread carefully" area. The... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: OkCupid experiences? |
| Pabbicus |
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Posted: 01 Jan 2014, 5:01 am
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Replies: 128
Views: 8,508
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| After a year, I've had no communications that lasted longer than a month with anyone, let alone any dates. Lots of good conversations followed by abrupt silence and indifference. Did you ask any girls to go on a date with you? You have to ask them. I sure have and none gave me a response. I'm perfe... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: OkCupid experiences? |
| Pabbicus |
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Posted: 01 Jan 2014, 3:48 am
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Replies: 128
Views: 8,508
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| After a year, I've had no communications that lasted longer than a month with anyone, let alone any dates. Lots of good conversations followed by abrupt silence and indifference. Did you ask any girls to go on a date with you? You have to ask them. I sure have and none gave me a response. I'm perfe... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The reason why many are single |
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Posted: 01 Jan 2014, 1:50 am
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Replies: 130
Views: 12,655
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| I would say its because we cannot speak in the language of Love, somebody might like us, but they are not going to come up to us and say, "look, I really fancy you, will you ask me out please", no, instead they send out various signs and signals that say the same in the form of body language, but a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I'm so sick of this whole aspie women have it easier crap |
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Posted: 01 Jan 2014, 1:46 am
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Replies: 142
Views: 42,056
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| The process for women is obviously much more passive. This means men have to learn a lot more stupid skills than women do. NT men are rejected an average of 150 times for every one person who says yes, add opposed to about 10 for women. I'm sure AS men face a lot more rejection than average. We also... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Magic Key.... |
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Posted: 01 Jan 2014, 1:31 am
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Replies: 34
Views: 2,663
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| this is complete and utter sajifdsjlfdsjlkfds. AN NT in your life may be getting laid every week, so if there are 52 NT's in your life chances are one of them is getting laid and the others are gossiping about it. Only about 2% of people actually have hyper-sex-lives where they have different partn... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Magic Key.... |
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Posted: 01 Jan 2014, 1:21 am
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Replies: 34
Views: 2,663
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| Most nt people I know do routinely have sex with people they've just met, though. To them a week of talking is a long time while to me nothing seems to change about relationships I have with others over the course of months or years. You can proclaim that it's difficult but most people find difficul... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: OkCupid experiences? |
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Posted: 01 Jan 2014, 1:16 am
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Replies: 128
Views: 8,508
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| After a year, I've had no communications that lasted longer than a month with anyone, let alone any dates. Lots of good conversations followed by abrupt silence and indifference. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What are relationships all about? |
| Pabbicus |
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Posted: 31 Dec 2013, 4:50 am
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Replies: 59
Views: 3,973
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| Power and conflict, as far as I can see. Both parties want to be in control but if they get the power they get bored of the person they're with, so to avoid being dumped you have to fight with the person. If you're loving and accommodating you get either no attention in the first place or treated li... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The reason why many are single |
| Pabbicus |
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Posted: 31 Dec 2013, 4:28 am
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Replies: 130
Views: 12,655
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| Do you flirt? Maybe the guys assume you are unavailable. I have no idea. I feel like it's really obvious when I am attracted to someone though because I start talking gibberish and I blush easily. The blushing is one of the reasons I don't put myself in difficult social situations because it seems ... |
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