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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Interesting |
| starenczak |
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Posted: 19 Dec 2013, 4:19 am
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Replies: 18
Views: 1,673
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| If I said to you that he may be interested, how would that make you feel? Would you charge in, or take a relaxed approach to it? Try sharing an activity or meeting up outside of work and further assessing the situation. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I asked a girl out on a date... |
| starenczak |
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Posted: 19 Dec 2013, 4:17 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 8,213
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| Well done! I mean that - coming out of your shell and identifying yourself as being more NT this year is a MASSIVE step. I too go through the same NT ups and downs, I am on a bit of an up at the moment. Potentially, asking girls out you really do like is like juggling knives and unless you're well p... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Men, would you date a hot girl with a crap personality? |
| starenczak |
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Posted: 18 Dec 2013, 1:26 pm
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Replies: 62
Views: 8,329
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| How would you know she had a crap personality without dating her? Um, so if you are introduced to a woman, that means you are dating? Like, you don't actually know any females that are not either your mother, your sister or your date? Did you really mean to say what you just said? Yes - if you thin... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: feeling lonely and too curious. |
| starenczak |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2013, 11:34 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 637
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| You wait..........wait for her to make an appearance. In the mean time, find something you're really good at and develop it. You will thank yourself in 10 years time. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: about friends and girlfriends |
| starenczak |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2013, 11:32 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 909
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| Too much information - sorry. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Slightly underweight or curvy/slightly overweight? |
| starenczak |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2013, 11:31 am
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Replies: 206
Views: 26,698
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| What a pointless thread - half of these are made up by marketers. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Men, would you date a hot girl with a crap personality? |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2013, 11:30 am
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Replies: 62
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How would you know she had a crap personality without dating her?
A hot girl is still a hot girl. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is it me or an Aspie trait?? |
| starenczak |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2013, 11:28 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 982
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| Thank you both for your replies - I don't have an active social circle. I have a handful of friends who are scattered across the country and catchup with them on occasion. Where she is excited about the prospect of meeting new people and having conversation, I do not. I find very few people easy to ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is it me or an Aspie trait?? |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2013, 8:31 am
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Replies: 5
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| I have never enjoyed doing the whole "couple" or "association" thing, whether it is sharing a social circle at school with my brother, having an affinity with a group of friends outside of a planned activity be it because we're work colleagues or part of a sport club - or more troublemaking, being a... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Finding and Keeping jobs - Tips and Advice |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2013, 8:43 pm
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Replies: 245
Views: 447,472
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The more information we can provide on the forums, in a simple and digestible format is invaluable.
Aspies (or at least me) are very good at learning social and other interactive processes where intuitive impulses normally take over. |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: About me (New Member)- older adult Aspie |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2013, 8:32 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 721
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| I wonder what my special cave would look like? Welcome! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: 24 Things Single People are Tired of Hearing |
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Posted: 04 Dec 2013, 10:33 pm
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Replies: 19
Views: 2,467
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Some people are good at being on their own, others are not.
I know who I am, glad to hear you know who you are. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: women at work, I'm over 50-HELP |
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Posted: 04 Dec 2013, 10:23 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,302
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| It is very sweet to hear about your office romance - I say this with the upmost respect. You have analysed a lot of information about this woman in your head, which at the moment is as far it has gone. I would talk to the woman and explain how you feel, set the stage and tell her what is in your min... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hello I'm new here. |
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Posted: 04 Dec 2013, 9:36 pm
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Replies: 7
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Chaya wrote: My dad got mad at me again because I was talking to myself. Is talking to myself really unusual among aspies?
I have a dad who doesn't understand me either, you're not alone. |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: hi i'm new ! C: |
| starenczak |
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Posted: 03 Dec 2013, 4:34 pm
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Replies: 6
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Welcome Kelsey  would you like to tell us more about your symptoms? I have only recently been diagnosed. |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: New Aspie - London |
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Posted: 03 Dec 2013, 4:30 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 853
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sonataform wrote: Hello from someone else in london!
Hi there sonataform |
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