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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: My therapist doesn't believe I have aspergers |
| johnnyboy11 |
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Posted: 08 Feb 2014, 1:09 am
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Replies: 19
Views: 6,423
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| I've felt that I had aspergers on some level ever since I found out about it. I speak very monotone, have no close personal relationships, and cannot seem to form any type of close bond with any woman in spite of the fact that I'm not a bad looking guy. I am not shy, but I just can't "connect" with ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why are women into me at first, and then they lose interest? |
| johnnyboy11 |
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Posted: 01 Feb 2014, 5:48 am
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Replies: 19
Views: 2,757
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| People tell me I'm a good looking guy, and I get a lot of dates. But something just isn't right and I don't know what it is. Something is missing, or I'm doing something wrong and not realizing it. *sigh*. ( You might have a condition known as "Aspergers Syndrome", this is where though you might be... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why are women into me at first, and then they lose interest? |
| johnnyboy11 |
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Posted: 01 Feb 2014, 5:09 am
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Replies: 19
Views: 2,757
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| There seems to be a lot of attractive people on here, but attraction is only the initial part. You have to try to not be awkward when you're with people-- which isn't always easy. I think that people may be misreading you and maybe you've turned them off by something you've done or said. It's hard ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why are women into me at first, and then they lose interest? |
| johnnyboy11 |
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Posted: 31 Jan 2014, 11:58 pm
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Replies: 19
Views: 2,757
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| Thanks Eureka, I try to ask questions, and let the woman talk about herself a lot. It seems that I do everything right "on paper" but I never see any results. I'm at a loss. I don't know what else to do. People tell me I'm a good looking guy, and I get a lot of dates. But something just isn't right ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why are women into me at first, and then they lose interest? |
| johnnyboy11 |
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Posted: 31 Jan 2014, 11:19 pm
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Replies: 19
Views: 2,757
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| I don't get it. I do NOT connect well with people in general, but I can hold down conversations. I just don't understand how to build romantic interest. I can get a date EVERY Friday night, it seems (using that TINDER app thing), but almost NEVER a second date! My picture is my avatar, am I a decent... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Anyone ever experience inconsistent behavior from people? |
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Posted: 27 Jan 2014, 5:01 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 1,840
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| Most humans can decide whom is a viable mate within 90 seconds to 4 minutes of first meeting a person. She decided you weren't what she was after and decided to remove herself from the situation. Either that or she had so much anxiety she lied. She decided I wasn't what she wanted without even meet... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: "Get out there and meet people through groups!" |
| johnnyboy11 |
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Posted: 26 Jan 2014, 3:55 am
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Replies: 22
Views: 1,696
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| Wouldn't it be more fake if they hung with you out of pity instead of because they really wanted to? It seems to me they are being moderately honest by not hanging with you if they don't want to do; but they are trying to spare your feelings by suggesting the group thing. Sorry if this isn't the re... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: "Get out there and meet people through groups!" |
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Posted: 26 Jan 2014, 3:37 am
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Replies: 22
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| Has anyone here ever tried to ask an NT to hang out only to be told "I'm really busy, why don't you try to meet new people on group websites!" If I wanted to meet someone on a group website I'D HAVE ALREADY GONE THERE. I asked YOU to hang out, and obviously YOU DONT WANT TO. That's what I feel like ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Anyone ever experience inconsistent behavior from people? |
| johnnyboy11 |
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Posted: 26 Jan 2014, 3:27 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 1,840
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| For example, I was trying to make friends with this woman on facebook. We talked for a while on there, and often we talked about going to a basketball game or something. Well, at first she agreed. Then she started saying "I'm busy" and finally it ended up with her just totally trying to get out of t... |
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