do you want or have a boy/girlfriend?

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do you want or have a boy/girlfriend?
Yeah, I have/want a boy or girlfriend 28%  28%  [ 62 ]
Yeah, I have/want a boy or girlfriend 32%  32%  [ 71 ]
I dont think so. But I might have one if I find someone with the same interest as me and I like him. / Or it doesnt really matter if I get one 11%  11%  [ 24 ]
I dont think so. But I might have one if I find someone with the same interest as me and I like him. / Or it doesnt really matter if I get one 13%  13%  [ 29 ]
No I dont want/have a boy or girlfriend 8%  8%  [ 17 ]
No I dont want/have a boy or girlfriend 10%  10%  [ 22 ]
Total votes : 225

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25 Mar 2013, 4:40 pm

I dont want any boyfriend in my life.. and I Wonder if that is because my asperger, or if I just dont like People very much indeed.



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25 Mar 2013, 5:03 pm

no, I don't want a girlfriend but I do want a close female friend.



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25 Mar 2013, 5:39 pm

I want a girlfriend very badly!


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25 Mar 2013, 9:11 pm

Nah... I generally don't really want nor need a girlfriend or boyfriend. Though I don't thing I experience very much with feelings for people, the want for sex or what not. Though I can't get out much, I'm not looking but if I do had those feelings for either man or woman, then I'll see what goes after that. I'm pretty much indifferent to the whole thing.


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25 Mar 2013, 10:02 pm

i'm married.



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25 Mar 2013, 11:19 pm

I have no interest in sex, let alone romantic relationships. I value my freedom too much for one thing.



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01 Apr 2013, 7:13 am

I want a girlfriend. I used to be a bit obsessed with the idea and unhappy I didn't have one, but now I have the mindset that I'm just going to enjoy life and let it come when it comes.


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01 Apr 2013, 5:25 pm

I have a boyfriend.



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02 Apr 2013, 11:00 am

I have had... five boyfriends, I think? mostly they come and go very quickly, seems I'm charming to start with, but hard to put up with, being constantly shy and hesitant about most things, and also rather immature and silly. Oddly, up until about a year ago, I had no interest in this 'relationship' thing at all, but then suddenly over a couple of months I started to reconsider that, and though I know I was happy alone for those years, I still sometimes regret being that way.
Hope things work out better with number six, though on the other hand, I still don't feel ready to settle down long-term with anyone either.



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21 Apr 2013, 8:22 pm

I dont know. I have a history of being aloof, but I like having someone to rub up against while I watching Big Babg



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01 May 2013, 10:34 pm

No, I don't want another girlfriend. I put a huge amount of trust in my last girlfriend in a fairly long-term relationship, but when it ended suddenly and without any explanation I vowed - "Never Again". I'm better off without having to feel that kind of heart-break again TYVM.



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03 May 2013, 1:17 am

I would like to have a girlfriend.


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03 May 2013, 2:04 am

I would like to have a few different "online" GF's, but I dont think I could handle a breathing, in-my-face touchable GF. Or rather, I dont think any real life girl would be able to deal with my eccentricities.



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04 May 2013, 5:12 pm

Yes. What I'm not sure I want are the negatives that come with it.



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04 May 2013, 7:47 pm

Why do you conflate want and have?

To me, it’s like asking if I’d like to discover the philosopher’s stone.