Which people-groups are currently allowed to be hated?

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Which people-groups are currently allowed to be hated?
Christians 6%  6%  [ 2 ]
"Fundies" 3%  3%  [ 1 ]
"Neocons" 3%  3%  [ 1 ]
Whites 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
Non-whites 3%  3%  [ 1 ]
Men 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
Women 3%  3%  [ 1 ]
Adults 3%  3%  [ 1 ]
Teens 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
Children 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
Infants 6%  6%  [ 2 ]
Unborns 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
Elderly 3%  3%  [ 1 ]
"Racists" 3%  3%  [ 1 ]
"Homophobes" 6%  6%  [ 2 ]
A combination of the above and more 31%  31%  [ 11 ]
Nobody *is* "allowed" to be hated, but hating some groups is often more socially acceptable than hating others. 33%  33%  [ 12 ]
Total votes : 36

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15 Oct 2010, 12:55 pm

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im not sure why uv put racists or homophobes in inverted bunny ears.


My guess is because they've lost much of their integrity as words because of their overuse in stigmatizing people and organizations with whom certain people disagree. A few other such words would be terrorist and socialist, just to provide balance in pointing out ideologically driven hyperbole.


Pretty much, they are just labels to attach to anyone that another disagrees with. The disagreement need not even be related to the appellation.



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15 Oct 2010, 1:00 pm

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Apparently, it appears to be ok to hate white, Anglo-Saxon, Protestant, heterosexual males, because they are seen as "oppressors".


The meaning of hate topic

Thanks, Tim, for opening this up to what I think is going on here in this thread.

Hate is a strong emotion, capable of being spread like a plague. Since I am white, I can sort of evesdrop on some fringe groups and see what they are saying. I have also heard individuals ranting about hatred of certain minorities. Such people sound upset and may be doing this because of their own fear about something, but it comes out as hate that could be lifted from a klan meeting and Mein Kampf.

Such persons may be just ranting, but some others are clearly going viral, and want to start something. They see strength in numbers and figure they can spread the news and get others to agree with their fear mongering simplistic agenda. This is not restricted to the Wasps that Tim spoke of. I have also heard Asians, African Americans, Poles, Jews and Muslims rant like this. Such nuttering is not confined to Wasps, though such hate has traditionally been attributed to thems, because of historical events associated with the KKK, Crusades, and such. As I mentioned in my earlier post, groups formed by hate and violence are what need to be eradicated, but not by what I-parakeet suggested. Education, understanding, and communication are what can be the beginning of eradication of hate. In hard economic times scapegating is easier. There are poor white people who need a hand, as do poor people of colour, women, and challenged persons. All disadvantaged persons need help. I think if people do ask, and are persistant, they will get the help they need. I suggested this to a member here(he is white Aspie) who keeps writing about how homeless he is. I suggested he complain, do a demonstration--the squeaky wheel gets the grease. He must ask for help and not just rant here, though this is a start. :)

This Aspie, however, is still at the rant stage. He has not finished ranting yet. Perhaps when he does, he will get up, and continue on to get the help he needs and deserves. It is not hopeless, but does take some work, constructive work, not the destructiveness of hate.

In the news we have seen how hard work and co-operation can rescue 33 miners trapped 69 days undergound.


The cycle of hate has to stop. It is counterproductive, and does not work. 8)


The thing is that we're not oppressors, some people generalize that we are.


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15 Oct 2010, 1:28 pm

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...Education, understanding, and communication are what can be the beginning of eradication of hate...

Hate can be good if it provides a motivation that leads to actions that facilitate the preservation of the values and way of life you hold dear.



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15 Oct 2010, 2:12 pm

iamnotaparakeet wrote:
Dox47 wrote:
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im not sure why uv put racists or homophobes in inverted bunny ears.


My guess is because they've lost much of their integrity as words because of their overuse in stigmatizing people and organizations with whom certain people disagree. A few other such words would be terrorist and socialist, just to provide balance in pointing out ideologically driven hyperbole.


Pretty much, they are just labels to attach to anyone that another disagrees with. The disagreement need not even be related to the appellation.



*sigh*

i agree with dox and keet.

well, to an extent. i agree with dox's statement completely. i agree with keet's (and tim's for that matter) to the extent that, as a white male in america, it's hard not to take offense at the notion that white americans are all racists.

the problem is that white american racists exist and often make themselves known. it's the same problem faced by blacks and hispanics in urban areas where crime is rampant. i can see why a black college student could be angry about being arrested because someone just robbed a liquor store nearby and they happen to be waiting for a bus in the area. at the same time, i can see why a white man with a black partner could be offended at the implication that he is racist just because some racists look like him.

i'm not black so i don't know exactly what it feels like to be profiled by the LAPD for that.

my daughter doesn't live with me and a lot of people i only know as acquaintances either don't know i have a daughter or don't know that she's (half) black. when it is implicated that i am a racist because racist white people look just like regular white people, i can become enraged. racist comments by white people can make me even angrier, though, because it makes me feel like they're just making it worse.

i do so love a complicated issue!

in 6th grade, the other kids threw rocks at me every day as i walked to the field for P.E. and every time i fought back i would get in trouble and the bullies would get away with it. the teacher and most of the bullies were hispanic, so i decided that hispanics were crappy people. after a bit more experience with people, i decided that i couldn't find any one race to be crappier than another and that the only way to proceed was to acknowledge that there are no human subspecies and, as such, there is no valid reasoning for racism.

i think learning that i am wrong about something is even more fun than learning something new (which is almost always fun). overuse of the words "racist" and "homophobe" has detracted from their effectiveness. also, "homophobe" feels like a word used by people who don't dislike homosexuality to tease people who do dislike homosexuality by saying "oh, you're just scurred of 'em!" when the truth is that people accused of homophobia are being accused of disliking homosexuality.

does that mean that racism and anti-homosexuality don't actually exist?

i don't think so.

but, as with any overused terms, it does seem to nullify the impact.


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15 Oct 2010, 4:01 pm

you are allowed to hate anyone, but you should have a god reason for doing so. saying you hate someone "just cos"

you also should not be allowed to deny someone basic human rights because you hate them

"They came first for the Communists,
and I didn't speak up because I wasn't a Communist.

Then they came for the trade unionists,
and I didn't speak up because I wasn't a trade unionist.

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and I didn't speak up because I wasn't a Jew.

Then they came for me
and by that time no one was left to speak up." - Martin Niemöller


give me one good reason why people should be hated.



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15 Oct 2010, 4:20 pm

Dox47 wrote:
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im not sure why uv put racists or homophobes in inverted bunny ears.


My guess is because they've lost much of their integrity as words because of their overuse in stigmatizing people and organizations with whom certain people disagree. A few other such words would be terrorist and socialist, just to provide balance in pointing out ideologically driven hyperbole.


Overused how exactly? Calling racists racists?

Are you saying that terrorist and socialist are overused too? 8O


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15 Oct 2010, 6:39 pm

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i'm not black so i don't know exactly what it feels like to be profiled by the LAPD for that.


I know what it feels like to be profiled. I have a beard again and whenever I do and go out in public I get askance glances, glares, and often even police officers pestering me occasionally. When I shave cleanly I don't get such attention. I think that some people assume beard = "terrorist", and as such if I'm bored I'll talk about how weapons work with anyone nearby - it usually clears away the most paranoid of the bunch and I don't mind that so much.



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15 Oct 2010, 6:45 pm

It seems that it is perfectly okay to hate "people" as a whole, or perhaps "people who aren't me", judging by how misanthropes seem to be received.

As a person myself, I'm not sure how I feel about this.



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15 Oct 2010, 9:35 pm

BigK wrote:
Dox47 wrote:
StevieC wrote:
im not sure why uv put racists or homophobes in inverted bunny ears.


My guess is because they've lost much of their integrity as words because of their overuse in stigmatizing people and organizations with whom certain people disagree. A few other such words would be terrorist and socialist, just to provide balance in pointing out ideologically driven hyperbole.


Overused how exactly? Calling racists racists?

Are you saying that terrorist and socialist are overused too? 8O


You don't live in the US do you?



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15 Oct 2010, 11:22 pm

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Are you saying that terrorist and socialist are overused too? 8O


At least in this country, the level of hyperbole has made those words overused.

Hyperbole in the "news" media.


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16 Oct 2010, 12:28 pm

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As a person myself, I'm not sure how I feel about this.


awesome perspective.


and BigK: calling a racist a racist is a good use of the word. i think dox probably has an interesting perspective on whether or not the word is overused. you might try asking him what, in his experience, leads him to think that it's overused.

i get upset when people call it hyperbole when it's accurate but i can understand dox's position as well. racism is a stereotype for white americans and so "racist" has an added layer of silliness for some of us.



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16 Oct 2010, 3:24 pm

Racist, socialist and terrorist are overused words because they're politically useful and instigate fear or shame, just like words like heretic and witch were during the inquisitions in the middle ages. "Obama's a socialist! Very socialist. You wanna vote for him? You shouldn't vote for him! You don't want Hitler to come back do you? He's also a terrorist..."



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16 Oct 2010, 3:34 pm

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Racist, socialist and terrorist are overused words because they're politically useful and instigate fear or shame, just like words like heretic and witch were during the inquisitions in the middle ages. "Obama's a socialist! Very socialist. You wanna vote for him? You shouldn't vote for him! You don't want Hitler to come back do you? He's also a terrorist..."


That's hitting the nail upon the head. Thanks.



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16 Oct 2010, 3:58 pm

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Racist, socialist and terrorist are overused words because they're politically useful and instigate fear or shame, just like words like heretic and witch were during the inquisitions in the middle ages. "Obama's a socialist! Very socialist. You wanna vote for him? You shouldn't vote for him! You don't want Hitler to come back do you? He's also a terrorist..."


This is pretty close to how I would have put it, but as BigK seems to have taken his bat and ball and gone home, I haven't felt the need to further clarify. Personally, I'm a bit suspicious of this particular rage-quit, he was unhappy that the discussions regarding the running of PPR were not going his way, and making a big dramatic exit like that would on the surface seem to support his assertion that our "offensive discussions" discourage minorities from posting. Hopefully his motives are equally transparent to the mod team. We'll have to see if he stays gone, my bet is two weeks.


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16 Oct 2010, 4:53 pm

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Racist, socialist and terrorist are overused words because they're politically useful and instigate fear or shame, just like words like heretic and witch were during the inquisitions in the middle ages. "Obama's a socialist! Very socialist. You wanna vote for him? You shouldn't vote for him! You don't want Hitler to come back do you? He's also a terrorist..."

or Obama belongs to a minority (black), don't vote for him, I mean, such words do actually correspond to reality sometimes, it isn't as there are no such a thing as racist, homophobe, socialist, etc. but that they can often be misused, such as with anything else. (note- I'm not implying that that is your point)

The term socialist seems more of a problem than the others, given that the problem of that seems more noticable, some who make accusations like that don't seem to fully acknowledge the issue regarding socialism, or at least don't seem to be that honest, and by the way wasn't Mccain's campaing who accused Obama of socialist?


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16 Oct 2010, 5:16 pm

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Racist, socialist and terrorist are overused words because they're politically useful and instigate fear or shame, just like words like heretic and witch were during the inquisitions in the middle ages. "Obama's a socialist! Very socialist. You wanna vote for him? You shouldn't vote for him! You don't want Hitler to come back do you? He's also a terrorist..."

or Obama belongs to a minority (black), don't vote for him, I mean, such words do actually correspond to reality sometimes, it isn't as there are no such a thing as racist, homophobe, socialist, etc. but that they can often be misused, such as with anything else. (note- I'm not implying that that is your point)


Maybe a clearer analogy would be "the boy who cried wolf", except in this case "he" has cried "racist!" "socialist!", "homophobe!" and "terrorist!" so many times that no one takes much notice of those terms anymore; they've been devalued through over use. It's like lexicographical inflation... :lol:


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