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18 Aug 2015, 2:25 pm

Is hell a good representation of Romans 12:21?

God cannot create good people who will not sin. A slight glitch in God’s creative technique that believers attribute to his giving us free will. Out our free will does not include our ability to choose not to sin. This is obvious as we are told that we are all born sinners and that all of us are condemned because of this glitch. If even one of us could not sin, we would all know about it.

While reading, I came across this verse. Romans 12:21 Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.

Hell is not usually considered a good thing.

Further, we are told that we are to emulate God in all ways. Matthew 5:48 Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect.

If this is so, should we, in seeking to be as perfect as God, ignore Romans 12:21 and do as God does and return evil for evil?

If God does not follow his own good advice, does that mean that we do not need to either?

Should we be following Romans 12:21 and ignoring Matthew 5:48 or following Matthew 5:48 and ignoring Romans 12:21. Clearly we cannot follow both as they are contradicting each other.

Should God return good for evil or should he return evil for evil?

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19 Aug 2015, 3:46 am

Perhaps we should just take responsibility for our lives.



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19 Aug 2015, 9:00 am

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Perhaps we should just take responsibility for our lives.


We definitely should and that is what Gnostic Christianity preaches.

The buck stops with us. Not with some mythical guy in the sky.

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19 Aug 2015, 8:27 pm

Please define the word 'sin' in your original post.

Most religious people would define it as not obeying a command of God. But as a non-religious person, or possible a deist, I would lean towards a definition of sinning is when you hurt someone else either physically or mentally. So I wouldn't consider things like homosexuality, masturbation, getting drunk, etc.. to be sins. Then in which case, yes I am kind of living a sin free life. I'm not killing anyone, raping anyone, stealing, assaulting anyone, discriminating against anyone, etc.. So by ones definition of sin, one may be leading a sin free life.



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19 Aug 2015, 9:20 pm

Cash__ wrote:
Please define the word 'sin' in your original post.

Most religious people would define it as not obeying a command of God. But as a non-religious person, or possible a deist, I would lean towards a definition of sinning is when you hurt someone else either physically or mentally. So I wouldn't consider things like homosexuality, masturbation, getting drunk, etc.. to be sins. Then in which case, yes I am kind of living a sin free life. I'm not killing anyone, raping anyone, stealing, assaulting anyone, discriminating against anyone, etc.. So by ones definition of sin, one may be leading a sin free life.


It doesn't matter what you use the word to mean. His topic is Christian theology, and the internal logic (or lack thereof) of the New Testament. So obviously he is using the word as it used in the New Testament (disobeying God).

What he DOES need to define is what does he mean by "evil" (or what he thinks the Bible means by evil).

If someone does violence to you that might be evil, but if that person is then justly punished for doing violence by violent means then...isn't that "justice" and not "evil". Is putting a convicted criminal in prison itself a "crime"? Is all Justice unjust? That's what the OP seems to be saying.

If god punishes you for being a sinner by sending you to hell -then how is sending you to hell "evil". You were naughty to he is punishing you. How is that evil? Its only justice (in Biblical terms).
So Romans doesn't contradict anything else in the Bible.



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20 Aug 2015, 5:46 am

Did I read somewhere according to Gnostics that miracles are evil? I would want a definition of miracle before offering further comment on that. Do they mean the kind of miracles Jesus did? It seems like a wholesale attack on Christinity to me.



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20 Aug 2015, 6:30 am

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Is hell a good representation of Romans 12:21?

God cannot create good people who will not sin. A slight glitch in God’s creative technique that believers attribute to his giving us free will. Out our free will does not include our ability to choose not to sin. This is obvious as we are told that we are all born sinners and that all of us are condemned because of this glitch. If even one of us could not sin, we would all know about it.

While reading, I came across this verse. Romans 12:21 Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.

Hell is not usually considered a good thing.

Further, we are told that we are to emulate God in all ways. Matthew 5:48 Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect.

If this is so, should we, in seeking to be as perfect as God, ignore Romans 12:21 and do as God does and return evil for evil?

If God does not follow his own good advice, does that mean that we do not need to either?

Should we be following Romans 12:21 and ignoring Matthew 5:48 or following Matthew 5:48 and ignoring Romans 12:21. Clearly we cannot follow both as they are contradicting each other.

Should God return good for evil or should he return evil for evil?

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Out of curiosity OP, when does God return evil for evil? And the ideal isn't to be like God, because we're not, but to be what God wants of us.

By the way, I think the Christian narrative is original sin, that we're all born with... I think a more mature view that better sells the theme of that message is that we're all born with a fallen, imperfect nature that isn't evil, but is certainly not good either. It's a tad immoral to burden a newborn with the sins of those who came before it. Adam's sin is Adam's.


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20 Aug 2015, 10:02 am

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Please define the word 'sin' in your original post.

Most religious people would define it as not obeying a command of God. But as a non-religious person, or possible a deist, I would lean towards a definition of sinning is when you hurt someone else either physically or mentally. So I wouldn't consider things like homosexuality, masturbation, getting drunk, etc.. to be sins. Then in which case, yes I am kind of living a sin free life. I'm not killing anyone, raping anyone, stealing, assaulting anyone, discriminating against anyone, etc.. So by ones definition of sin, one may be leading a sin free life.


Most religions people listen to men speak of what they think God is all about and any so called commandments have come from men and not God.

That aside.

I do not define sin as hurting someone else either physically or mentally. I would expand that to add, with intent to do so. Intent is the all important thing although we should still be quick to apologise for when we hurt someone else either physically or mentally inadvertently or by accident.

We are on the same page though.

For a better break down or expansion of my thinking, please google mens rea. That is a term used by our court systems to determine guilt. It basically means that someone is innocent of a harm if he did not have evil intent or an evil mind.

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20 Aug 2015, 10:10 am

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Cash__ wrote:
Please define the word 'sin' in your original post.

Most religious people would define it as not obeying a command of God. But as a non-religious person, or possible a deist, I would lean towards a definition of sinning is when you hurt someone else either physically or mentally. So I wouldn't consider things like homosexuality, masturbation, getting drunk, etc.. to be sins. Then in which case, yes I am kind of living a sin free life. I'm not killing anyone, raping anyone, stealing, assaulting anyone, discriminating against anyone, etc.. So by ones definition of sin, one may be leading a sin free life.


It doesn't matter what you use the word to mean. His topic is Christian theology, and the internal logic (or lack thereof) of the New Testament. So obviously he is using the word as it used in the New Testament (disobeying God).

What he DOES need to define is what does he mean by "evil" (or what he thinks the Bible means by evil).

If someone does violence to you that might be evil, but if that person is then justly punished for doing violence by violent means then...isn't that "justice" and not "evil". Is putting a convicted criminal in prison itself a "crime"? Is all Justice unjust? That's what the OP seems to be saying.

If god punishes you for being a sinner by sending you to hell -then how is sending you to hell "evil". You were naughty to he is punishing you. How is that evil? Its only justice (in Biblical terms).
So Romans doesn't contradict anything else in the Bible.


Please have a look at my response to Cash just above.

To your last. I think it does.

Romans 12:21 Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.

We can get into justice angles later and I think I can dissuade you of your view but lets try to determine just what hell is in terms of good or evil.

Do you consider hell a good place or an evil place?

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20 Aug 2015, 10:23 am

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Did I read somewhere according to Gnostics that miracles are evil? I would want a definition of miracle before offering further comment on that. Do they mean the kind of miracles Jesus did? It seems like a wholesale attack on Christinity to me.


It is in a way. We are opposed to homophobia and misogyny as we believe in equality. Christianity and Islam both promote those immoral tenets and all moral people will attack those tenets.

Further. Do not forget that Christianity murdered most Gnostic Christians and burned most of our scriptures. Constantine and his church were not interested in free thinking people. They just wanted sheeple and any free thinkers who opposed that mental slavery had to go. Those murders helped Christianity usher in the Dark Ages of free thought and Inquisition.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oR02cia ... =PLCBF574D

So yes. I attack the Christian and Muslim creeds whenever I can. They are quite evil. For evil to grow, all good people need do is nothing.

As to miracles. Gnostic Christians are esoteric ecumenist and I would add naturalists. We do not believe in anything that exceeds the bound of nature and physics. No supernatural, no miracles or magic.

We do believe this bit of our myths almost literally though and explain why as a mind exercise for you.

Jesus said, "If those who attract you say, 'See, the Kingdom is in the sky,' then the birds of the sky will precede you.
If they say to you, 'It is under the earth,' then the fish of the sea will precede you.
Rather, the Kingdom of God is inside of you, and it is outside of you.
[Those who] become acquainted with [themselves] will find it; [and when you] become acquainted with yourselves, [you will understand that] it is you who are the sons of the living Father.
But if you will not know yourselves, you dwell in poverty and it is you who are that poverty."

Here is a mind exercise. Tell me what you see when you look around. The best that can possibly be or an ugly and imperfect world?

Candide.
"It is demonstrable that things cannot be otherwise than as they are; for as all things have been created for some end, they must necessarily be created for the best end.”

That means that we live in the best of all possible worlds, given all the conditions at hand. That is an irrefutable statement.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NOGEyBe ... r_embedded

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quote="GnosticBishop"]Is hell a good representation of Romans 12:21?

God cannot create good people who will not sin. A slight glitch in God’s creative technique that believers attribute to his giving us free will. Out our free will does not include our ability to choose not to sin. This is obvious as we are told that we are all born sinners and that all of us are condemned because of this glitch. If even one of us could not sin, we would all know about it.

While reading, I came across this verse. Romans 12:21 Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.

Hell is not usually considered a good thing.

Further, we are told that we are to emulate God in all ways. Matthew 5:48 Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect.

If this is so, should we, in seeking to be as perfect as God, ignore Romans 12:21 and do as God does and return evil for evil?

If God does not follow his own good advice, does that mean that we do not need to either?

Should we be following Romans 12:21 and ignoring Matthew 5:48 or following Matthew 5:48 and ignoring Romans 12:21. Clearly we cannot follow both as they are contradicting each other.

Should God return good for evil or should he return evil for evil?

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Out of curiosity OP, when does God return evil for evil?


I mentioned hell as his worst evil being our reward for being evil ion his eyes so unless you think hell is something good, you should agree that God is returning evil for evil.

You can also look anywhere where God is shown to kill or have someone killed because the good return would be to cure while the evil return would be to kill.

This link gives a few other examples.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dx7irFN2gdI


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And the ideal isn't to be like God, because we're not, but to be what God wants of us.


Is God your father?
If he is your creator then yes he is.

As above so below.

Are you a father?

If so, and even if not I think you can speculate, then tell us, do you want your child to exceed whatever level of excellence you have reached?

I certainly do for my children.

What makes you think God would want less for his children?

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By the way, I think the Christian narrative is original sin, that we're all born with... I think a more mature view that better sells the theme of that message is that we're all born with a fallen, imperfect nature that isn't evil, but is certainly not good either. It's a tad immoral to burden a newborn with the sins of those who came before it. Adam's sin is Adam's.

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Jews, who wrote the myth of Eden, do not recognize Original Sin or the fall of man. Their interpretation is that of Eden being our place of elevation, where we, as God himself says in scriptures, they have become as Gods etc.

Original sin is a foolish and immoral concept , as you seem to recognize. Now wonder why Christianity came up with it. False guilt and money are the likely reason as well as to denigrate women via Eves mistake.

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20 Aug 2015, 11:21 am

Unfortunately, sin is not a choice of free will. Free will is what brought the first humans to sin. And sin is imperfection according to the bible. Sin's effects are so great that they effect every human from then on. So our free will, regardless if we want to or not, cannot affect our ability to sin, but can affect our ability to serve god.

Choice is what everyone struggles with. The deduction to make a choice of right and wrong is more complicated than people realize. Adam and Eve, created perfect without sin, could still make wrong choices. Angels could even make wrong choices. Although Free will and choice are not literally the same, they do tie into one another. Free will is like saying independent thought, that is, to think without the need of someone to think for you. This is what is meant by free will, the ability to choose for yourself. Obviously god knew that there would be some humans and angels who would fall for this.

But the issue is not free will or choice. I say those cause with my previous paragraphs in mind, with an open mind, I'll relate why Romans 12:21 does not conflict with Matthew 5:48.

Firstly, god never created a literal hell {Hades in Greek, She'ol in Hebrew}. The place of torment mentioned in Revelations is symbolic, along with the rest of Revelations. The bible does not teach hell is a place evil people go. In fact the bible says that there is a resurrection of both good and bad people [Acts 15:24].

So what about Romans 12:21 and Matthew 5:48? First consider the whole scripture paragraph, rather than a single scripture. Matthew 5:44-48: "However, I say to you: Continue to love your enemies and to pray for those who persecute you, so that you may prove yourselves sons of your Father who is in the heavens, since he makes his sun rise on both the wicked and the good and makes it rain on both the righteous and the unrighteous. For if you love those loving you, what reward do you have? Are not also the tax collectors doing the same thing? And if you greet your brothers only, what extraordinary thing are you doing? Are not also the people of the nations doing the same thing? You must accordingly be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect."

Romans 12:17-21: "Return evil for evil to no one. Take into consideration what is fine from the viewpoint of all men. If possible, as far as it depends on you, be peaceable with all men. Do not avenge yourselves, beloved, but yield place to the wrath; for it is written: “‘Vengeance is mine; I will repay,’ says {God}.” But “if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by doing this you will heap fiery coals on his head.” Do not let yourself be conquered by the evil, but keep conquering the evil with the good."

Both scriptures literally mean the same thing. Treat your enemy with kindness. Matthew and Romans also say to leave certain matters in god's hands, and that he alone will deal with the true evils of our world.

But to further demonstrate that god does not torment people forever, we can look at other scriptures. Ezekiel 18:4 clearly says that souls die. Especially if they sin.
Genesis 3:19 says that our bodies return to dust.
John 11:11-13, Jesus himself likened death to sleep. He nor Lazarus spoke about life in another world. Jesus did not say he was elsewhere or being tormented in a place. There was no mention of his soul returning to his body either. The same is said to Matthew 9:24.

So does god return evil to evil? The answer is an absolute no. It is not what the bible teaches.



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20 Aug 2015, 12:16 pm

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Unfortunately, sin is not a choice of free will. Free will is what brought the first humans to sin. And sin is imperfection according to the bible. Sin's effects are so great that they effect every human from then on. So our free will, regardless if we want to or not, cannot affect our ability to sin, but can affect our ability to serve god.

Choice is what everyone struggles with. The deduction to make a choice of right and wrong is more complicated than people realize. Adam and Eve, created perfect without sin, could still make wrong choices. Angels could even make wrong choices. Although Free will and choice are not literally the same, they do tie into one another. Free will is like saying independent thought, that is, to think without the need of someone to think for you. This is what is meant by free will, the ability to choose for yourself. Obviously god knew that there would be some humans and angels who would fall for this.

But the issue is not free will or choice. I say those cause with my previous paragraphs in mind, with an open mind, I'll relate why Romans 12:21 does not conflict with Matthew 5:48.

Firstly, god never created a literal hell {Hades in Greek, She'ol in Hebrew}. The place of torment mentioned in Revelations is symbolic, along with the rest of Revelations. The bible does not teach hell is a place evil people go. In fact the bible says that there is a resurrection of both good and bad people [Acts 15:24].

So what about Romans 12:21 and Matthew 5:48? First consider the whole scripture paragraph, rather than a single scripture. Matthew 5:44-48: "However, I say to you: Continue to love your enemies and to pray for those who persecute you, so that you may prove yourselves sons of your Father who is in the heavens, since he makes his sun rise on both the wicked and the good and makes it rain on both the righteous and the unrighteous. For if you love those loving you, what reward do you have? Are not also the tax collectors doing the same thing? And if you greet your brothers only, what extraordinary thing are you doing? Are not also the people of the nations doing the same thing? You must accordingly be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect."

Romans 12:17-21: "Return evil for evil to no one. Take into consideration what is fine from the viewpoint of all men. If possible, as far as it depends on you, be peaceable with all men. Do not avenge yourselves, beloved, but yield place to the wrath; for it is written: “‘Vengeance is mine; I will repay,’ says {God}.” But “if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by doing this you will heap fiery coals on his head.” Do not let yourself be conquered by the evil, but keep conquering the evil with the good."

Both scriptures literally mean the same thing. Treat your enemy with kindness. Matthew and Romans also say to leave certain matters in god's hands, and that he alone will deal with the true evils of our world.

But to further demonstrate that god does not torment people forever, we can look at other scriptures. Ezekiel 18:4 clearly says that souls die. Especially if they sin.
Genesis 3:19 says that our bodies return to dust.
John 11:11-13, Jesus himself likened death to sleep. He nor Lazarus spoke about life in another world. Jesus did not say he was elsewhere or being tormented in a place. There was no mention of his soul returning to his body either. The same is said to Matthew 9:24.

So does god return evil to evil? The answer is an absolute no. It is not what the bible teaches.


"Both scriptures literally mean the same thing. Treat your enemy with kindness."

Then you must think God is a Universalists and gets us all into heaven. Right?

If not, then is killing a soul instead of curing it a good and kind thing?

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20 Aug 2015, 2:21 pm

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"Both scriptures literally mean the same thing. Treat your enemy with kindness."

Then you must think God is a Universalists and gets us all into heaven. Right?

If not, then is killing a soul instead of curing it a good and kind thing?

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I had a feeling you would say something like this. Your point was with the scriptures so my case was strictly scripture focused, but I'll humor your 'new' focus. Universalist in the governing of human moral and conduct, but not complete universalism.

Psalms 37 says the wicked one will be cut off.
Revelation 11:18 says god would bring to ruin those ruining the earth.
concerning the resurrection of the bad people. Acts 24:15 says that the unrighteous would be resurrected to judgment, not life, like the righteous. So they could get a second chance.

Adam and Eve was one of those who ruined the earth, so their soul will remain dead. Pharaoh refused to see god's power, so his soul could be condemned for destruction.

Killing a soul is much better and more good than letting it suffer for eternity, don't you agree? It is much better to cut off something evil and wicked, rather than tolerating it and allow it to exist. It is why Jesus prophesied the last days, in that the wicked will be destroyed.

It is unsure whether or not our free will and choices would create sin still, and how it will be done with. But the biggest concern for us, right now, is to learn how to survive Armageddon.



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"Both scriptures literally mean the same thing. Treat your enemy with kindness."

Then you must think God is a Universalists and gets us all into heaven. Right?

If not, then is killing a soul instead of curing it a good and kind thing?

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I had a feeling you would say something like this. Your point was with the scriptures so my case was strictly scripture focused, but I'll humor your 'new' focus. Universalist in the governing of human moral and conduct, but not complete universalism.


No it is not. It is a recognition that we are all in this together, alone, and we all contribute to the good and evil here via all contributing to make each other what we end up.
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Psalms 37 says the wicked one will be cut off.
Revelation 11:18 says god would bring to ruin those ruining the earth.
concerning the resurrection of the bad people. Acts 24:15 says that the unrighteous would be resurrected to judgment, not life, like the righteous. So they could get a second chance.


LOL. Could.

Reincarnation has never been a part of Christian dogma. You are reaching too far. If you think otherwise, find that word in scriptures.

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Adam and Eve was one of those who ruined the earth, so their soul will remain dead. Pharaoh refused to see god's power, so his soul could be condemned for destruction.


That is a Jewish myth and Jews did not see a fall but an elevation. Jews have more authority over their myth than Christianity. Try again.

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Killing a soul is much better and more good than letting it suffer for eternity, don't you agree?


Sure but curing it is even better and one would expect God to give the greatest good possible, don't you agree?

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It is much better to cut off something evil and wicked, rather than tolerating it and allow it to exist.


It is much better for an omnipotent creator to never create it or cure it instead of cutting it off?

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It is why Jesus prophesied the last days, in that the wicked will be destroyed.


That is God replying to evil with evil and going against biblical advice is it not?

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It is unsure whether or not our free will and choices would create sin still, and how it will be done with. But the biggest concern for us, right now, is to learn how to survive Armageddon.
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Armageddon, another (good) from God to deal with evil.

Why do you see God destroying what he create all the time as somehow a good?

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Notice I said not total universalism. While I agree with universalism, not everything about it matches what a Christian should believe. In other words you are right, we do influence each other.

As for reincarnation, that I do not believe in. The resurrection of judgment is metaphorical while the resurrection of life is literal. God does not resurrect someone to simply kill them again, that would be pointless. Those who deserves the second chance to serve him completely.

Christians believe that the old mosaic law governs most of todays Christianity. While not everyone does, it was the jews who god had promised the messiah would raise out of and indeed he did. It was the jews who started it all. I will not try again when I have already succeeded.

So let me get this straight, you want god to make an evil person do good? Wouldn't that take his choice and freedom away? No, there is a reason we can choose good and evil. It becomes robotic if we are forced to serve god? God would rather leave a wicked person dead, than torment him.

As for god cutting off the wickedness, we are not to judge him. If he decides destruction to the wicked, since he created us, we should not judge that. In any case, it is for the greater good. You would not just let someone beat you down, you would defend yourself. That is what god is doing, defending his creation.

{when you mimicked my post, "Don't you agree" it showed me you just like typing words to type words. I do not believe you are sincere and genuine in this argument anymore and are a troll, since you love to antagonize. You claim spirituality yet you yourself speak abusively about god. Make up your mind, are you, or arnt you spiritual?}