Social Skills for Doctors
jojobean
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There's the missing piece of the puzzle. You will note my caveat, "unless she has some underlying immune system disorder," above. Well now you've presented a fuller picture that makes more sense to me. (I should point out that although mastocytosis presents symptoms that can be similar or identical to allergic reactions, it is not an "allergic" disease, and the mediation of reactions is often very different from true allergic reactions).
So what we are dealing with is not an allergy to all antibiotics and all steroids, but rather with mastocytosis. Mastocytosis is certainly going to present allergy like symptoms, but due to the excessive number of mast cells present in the body. In these circumstances your mother is vulnerable not only to antibiotics and steroids, but potentially to a whole host of stimuli.
This is a difficult situation to work with, but no phsyician would be incapable of establishing a therapeutic regime that addressed the acute condiction, while accommodating the underlying condition. My particular area of medicine is internal medicine (infectious disease), and I have dealt with patients presenting mastocytosis from time to time. In these cases, I have brought in an immunologist colleague, so that we can bring coordinated experience to bear on providing advice.
When did I ever say that it can't happen? I acknowledge that it did happen and very likely will happen in the same circumstances.
I have never suggested that your mother was in any way delusional. I have never had any doubt that she presents the symptoms in reaction to these drugs. Even if these reactions are psychosomatic (and psychosomatic triggers can be present with mastocytosis), that is not indicative of any disordered mental state. As I have said before, they are real, measurable and often warrant therapeutic action.
But what I am doing is not accepting your claim of allergy as a full and sufficient explanation of why she presents these symptoms. The issue is not what happened when she has been exposed to these drugs, the issue is why it happened. When we know why, then we can address the real problem, and not merely its symptomatic presentations.
Just because I do not accept a patient's belief that a given set of symptoms warrant a specific diagnosis does not mean that I don't believe these symptoms have occurred. But what it does mean is that I want to use the training, skill and experience that I have to treat what is actually disordered, rather than what the patient has assumed is disordered.
We have a hard time with doctors not wanting to learn, but just throwimg their hands in the air and saying she is too complicated.
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I don't know what your personal circumstances are like, but I would suggest that you get a referral from your family doctor to a clinical immunologist if you haven't done so already.
Mastocytosis is an unusual condition and there are few specialists dealing with it outside of major centres, but you may be able to find names of physicians who can help you from the Mastocytosis Society (http://www.tsmforacure.org).
You will also find useful resources on that website that might provide you with some very useful information about managing future care--there are valuable resources for ER protocol, and planning for surgery that you may find useful in dealing with physicians in the future.
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jojobean
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Thank you, she is already a member...they helped her alot by telling her what medications best treat masto, which is on right now and doing better. Interestingly enough, many of the women seem to have the same stories of poor level of care, dr's not listening, and so on, but all the men on the site are treated with first class care and dont report such problems with doctors. It takes the women on the site many more years longer to get diagnosed that the men. It took my mom 15 years before she was diagnosed with masto and her story is all too common among the women. But the longest it took for any of the men on the site to get diagnosed was 2 years.
Why is there such a diiference in the level of care between the two genders?
I remember when my mom was having alot of heart problems...she kept telling the docs that she is having heart problems and they just ignored her. 2 heart attacks later, they decided to cathe her heart based on some tests, but they cathed the wrong side. They cathed the left side but the test showed damage on the right anterior wall. No doctor has yet cathed her right side even though she asked them to, and that is where the damage is. It was 3 years from the time she started complaing about her heart to when the first tests were done. However, my dad complianed of chest pain, and they slapped him in ICU within a day a ran every test they could on him. Come to find out, it was chest muscle pain. The kicker was they both had the same doctor! wtf! The gender bias is glaring.
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