Anyone Insecure?

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I keep my self super fit. I lift weights some times do push ups lots work out tonnes go running etc. I aways feel ugly and worthless.I am fitter than almost any one else I see around but I still feel fat and ugly... And to top that off I think im starting to go bald and im only 18

I'm very insecure. I tend to take all criticism very personally, and feel that anyone who criticises me dislikes me/hates me, etc. I also have a morbid fear that everyone I know hates me. I'm also insecure about my intellectual abilities, and I tend to think I am stupid, even though everyone I know tells me I'm not.

About the baldness thing well explain this i am 13 years old and female and was going bald now my hairs growing back but i still have a horrbal habbit of playing with my hair. I started using this shampoo called Vivagen from Redken and that proberally helped you can gets some spray treatment crap to but i think thats just anoter way to pump money into the comperney but its worth a try any way.

Insecure? Where to start. I can't look people in the eye because I feel like I'm just as ugly as sin. I feel insecure about my beliefs because I'm told daily I'm going to Hell when I die, because I'm one of the only atheists I know. I feel like I'm stupid sometimes because I can do complex homework assignments, but it takes me hours to finish the simplest thing. I feel like I'm a freak sometimes because I like to talk about science, theology, sociology, and other pertaining subjects--and others don't. I've been called weird by my physical behavior.

The Internet is the only place I can really be myself, I guess.

I'm very insecure. I have a very poor self-image and next to no self-esteem, the latter mostly being due to the fact I don't have any achievements to be proud of or draw inspiration from. This has only been made worse by bullying and generally being rejected by people, I'd say I have a pretty good set of reasons to be insecure. I don't think much of myself and am always paranoid of what others think, so I go all out aiming to please so I don't end up alone.

I used to feel pretty worthless about myself, I thought I was inferior to other people and I was a loser, who did not have a job, lived with his dad, did not have a car, let alone a drivers license. Sometimes I felt like a much older teenager not a adult (I will be 23 this year).

Plus I had and still have issues with my body image, I feel I am fat despite never being more than around 177 lbs (80 kgs) on a 5'8 (173cm) frame. I still think that way, despite now being around 160 lbs (72 kgs) and I think I am homely looking, despite what some people say, believe me I think that way when I see myself in the mirror. Plus I have pretty bad acne, I have to take medication for. Also for a long time I hated my red copper hair and dyed it Black and then Brown.

I am insecure about well my eriority. I don't know if I am inferior or not. My social failures and general feeling of being disconnected from people and the fact that I realize the importance of social ability makes me feel inferior and this is further driven by the fact that I do not impress my classmates too much academically. This has sort of turned me into a super student I guess though my GPA isn't great for my class, however, I have taken 8 AP tests including 2 self study and passed all of them and I would be a sophomore at most colleges, I currently am taking on an 8 course load with all of them similar to courses that people take in college and I am planning on self-studying on 2 AP tests, pseudo-self-studying on another(I have a teacher and a class to learn this one but the class is not meant for the AP test) and 5 other AP tests. Bah! Insecurity hounds me but it also is what drives me to attempt my crazy ambitions.

Yep, i'm always insecure..even when family or friends are around

I'm very insecure. I have very low self-esteem, and I always feel bad about myself. I'm always worried about not being good enough, and I get upset with myself a lot for not being perfect. I have horrible problems with my body image; I think I'm fat and ugly. However, I'm working on this problem, an dI'm starting to make some progress.

I'm generally insecure around peple I don't know. I'm alway insecure around females, unless I know them extremly well. (I can only think of three that fit that right now) Once I get into something, it usually goes away a bit. Places I'm not insecure tend to be a class/subject which I know alot about.
As for weight, I was overweight all through middle school (It was only about 10-15 pounds) this was because when I was younger I took a medicence that sped up my metabolism, and I could eat whatever I wanted. I got off the meds and continued eating and I was gaining weight. Then I started running in 9th grade, and lost alot of weight. I mean alot. I starting gaining it a bit this year, but cut back eating, and droped fast. That said, I still feel insecure while wearing no shirt and such.

Insecure around people (especially girls, but what do you expect from a teenage guy?), I have a HUGE sense of paranoia, like somebody is always planning something against me, etc. Also, I'm concerned about self image, I always go after clothes at American Eagle and Aeropostale.

I can be insecure about going into some huge store or something when overload occurs or my learning "tide" goes out. I can also be insecure when I like being around someone, and I'm trying to be friends with them, but then I'm always scared that they might think I'm weird or even a stalker (from a time when a person I knew called me that, and then others believed it, and it has left me emotionally scarred). I also get insecure when I think about things I've said to a person and then I feel as if I've said the wrong thing (which can make almost anyone feel insecure).

I hate to be insecure because it can trigger off other problems -Include: Jealousy (Which I hate!), Fear, Anger Etc. I hate ALL these feelings, especially when they happen to me!

Sorry. I am just expressing myself, it is not often I do express myself either, I usually bottle it up sometimes.

Everyone is insecure at one degree, even those who don't show it.

Yeah: Who isn't? My advise is: lean against a wall and engage "slumber-mode". Be a dead-beat and people won't expect too much of you. Well, at least not often.