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12 Jan 2020, 1:09 pm

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While I loved being a kid in the 90s, I still wish I grew up in the 50s and was a young adult in the 60s and 70s. Towns were smaller back then, everybody knew each other, people were more friendly, kids were more respectful of their elders, there weren't so much of all this political correctness crap, technology was a luxury instead of a necessity, there was less traffic congestion everywhere, there wasn't so much drug-related crime, and there wasn't as much greed and competition like there is today. Yes they had tough times, more people were poor, etc, but they still got on with it, were happy with what they had, and looked out for each other.

These days kids don't know they're born and are wrapped in cotton wool, and spanking has become frowned upon. People are easily offended now, everything's 'racist' or 'abuse', and the internet is taking over everything and destroying businesses.



Well no, racism was always offensive. White people whining about political correctness is really white people whining about not being allowed to be racist anymore.

Lucky for you, Brexit has made it OK to be openly racist again.


Of course racism has always been offensive. The problem is that these days many people label things they don't like as rasistic. You point out that you have concerns about the huge amounts of money given out to other countries by your country even though there are lot of poor people in your own country? Racist! You point out that that one person you see who just happens to have different skin color than you is acting suspiciously? Racist! You get harassed by a person with different skin color and happen to mention the fact that his skin was certain color? Racist! You don't want to hang out with that one dark skinned girl at school because she bullies you? Racist!

...Except no, none of these situations are racist. But tell that to the people who blame others of racism every time they don't like something. Calling a black person a jerk without even knowing them and just because they're black is racist, calling them a jerk because they call you names in the school yard is not.



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22 Jan 2020, 2:30 pm

That is part of my point with the original topic too. ^ ^ ^



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22 Jan 2020, 2:45 pm

And one scary downside to life today is that we now live in the post-nuclear age and the world is starting to heat up again at this time. Particularly the US has a lot of threats.



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27 Jan 2020, 9:15 pm

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I remember thinking how great it was that things like Facebook were becoming popular because people would have to put their real identities/names out there with their opinions, making for intelligent conversations. In reality, things have gone the exact opposite: I swear the smartphone generation has literally signed over their critical thinking skills to Google and it is like Junior High all over again.

Not a surprise to me at all. "Intelligent conversations" are MUCH more likely to happen under pseudonyms (at least in a well-moderated forum) than among people using their legal names. When people use their legal names, everything is all about how they look, to whomever they are trying to impress, rather than about anything of substance. People are freer to speak their minds when using a pseudonym. (On the other hand, the resulting freedom is productive only up to a point; without moderation, a large online forum inevitably degenerates into endless flame wars or worse.)

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I also thought that being autistic would be a goldmine in this 'connected' generation but people are phonier than ever and even more intolerant of my differences.

Being autistic won't be a "goldmine" until we build a much bigger and better-organized autistic community than now exists.

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That's not to say the 80s were all sunshine and roses. Not only were buildings hideously ugly and sickness was rampant in them but many of my childhood memories involve either coughing uncontrollably, my clothes having an unbearable stink and having trouble seeing through the haze because people literally smoked everywhere, including banks and government offices. Even young adults today find it hard to grasp that as late as 2000, you could not only smoke in restaurants (and literally every single restaurant except Subway and one small cafe downtown allowed it) but also in the local athletic facility/sports stadium! The irony is astounding now but back then it was considered normal to smoke there and rude to 'offend' smokers by asking them to step outside.

Yep that has certainly been an improvement.

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Overall though I miss the fact I don't have many "places" to go. The local game store just closed down and all the video stores are long gone: my son will never know the thrill of going to the video store and seeing fellow movie/game enthusiasts in person.

If he wants to meet fellow movie/game enthusiasts in person, he'll need to either find or create a group on Meetup.com, which has made organizing small groups a lot easier than it used to be.


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28 Jan 2020, 2:04 pm

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If he wants to meet fellow movie/game enthusiasts in person, he'll need to either find or create a group on Meetup.com, which has made organizing small groups a lot easier than it used to be.


It has been my experience that these groups tend to be both of the extreme end of the hobby and highly cliquish/intolerant of outsiders. At least with the video store I could run into "normal" people who have other interests and can accept that not everybody who loves movies lives and breathes them. That's not even counting the fact as a father of a young child it is difficult to join another special interest group whereas with a store I can just take him in the stroller.

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When people use their legal names, everything is all about how they look, to whomever they are trying to impress, rather than about anything of substance.

Isn't that the truth! I have a few relatives on Facebook that sound like literal Saints (and are very well articulated) when in reality they are two faced, lying, backstabbing narcissists.



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28 Jan 2020, 5:14 pm

GiantHockeyFan wrote:
I remember thinking how great it was that things like Facebook were becoming popular because people would have to put their real identities/names out there with their opinions, making for intelligent conversations. In reality, things have gone the exact opposite: I swear the smartphone generation has literally signed over their critical thinking skills to Google and it is like Junior High all over again.

Years ago, I heard the older generation worrying that the younger generation would be unable to write in anything but text speak. But text speak fell out of favour and now it's the content of the writings that's cause for concern, not their use of text speak contractions.


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