I used to have a cat named Kittybebe!
KittyBebe wrote:
My mom thought quitting would make me more NT, but it didn't
I despise this sort of thinking. '
If I just puUuUuuSssSSh a little harder, I can magically FIX this Autistic person's congenital brain damage'
How stupid does a person have to be not to understand that our behavior, our personalities, everything we
are and
do is determined by the fact that
we do not experience the world the way others do? Nagging us about being who we are will not change us. Repress one behavior you don't like and another will manifest, because the underlying causes - the Autism that permeates everything we see and experience and every thought we have is
still there. And always will be.
When you truly love someone you don't play '
Whack-a-Mole' with their personality.