too many people hate me....

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transformingcar
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16 Sep 2012, 7:10 pm

So, I just got home, after calling 911 and talking to the cops about a guy who threatned me on the phone. They said, it was "no big deal" and pretty much refused to do anything about it.

the man who harrassed me was the brother of the only guy I could ever called a freind. but now, I don't have any freinds becuase of this terrible, cruel, person. he destroyed the only friendship I ever really had.

I can't understand why he did this to me.

all I know is that he thinks I accused his kid of "making a mess in the bathroom" My bathroom to be exact.
and yes, his kid did make a very seroius mess in my house!

but now It seems I have to stay away from them, becuase I fear this guy will hurt me. I don't know what to do....
I don't get it, why does everyone hate me so much? I tried to be the best friend I could, I was nice, polite and I hepled him with alot of things. I even helped him when he was sick.... what can I do? why do people always hurt me? I don't think I should continue to live, considering how much pain the world puts me through....



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16 Sep 2012, 7:15 pm

I know what you mean :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:



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16 Sep 2012, 7:29 pm

How come your friend's brother got so bent out of shape when you told him his son pooped all over? You'd think he'd want to know so he can potty train his kid a little better.



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16 Sep 2012, 8:17 pm

I'm sorry that your friendship has been terminated; this must be very difficult for you. Your friend's brother sounds like an absolute d*****bag.


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16 Sep 2012, 10:33 pm

I understand you. My best friend has refused me when I told him about my AS, when I have learned about it. Too many problems was in our friendship because of my aspergers. But he told to me that I say lies for the
benefit because I am an idler and I want to
do nothing to overcome my shortcomings
though I did everything what I can..
And I am loser at all.. but I tried to find friend, I have couple penpals now, they are kind to me and I dont feel myself totally alone


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16 Sep 2012, 11:32 pm

There's no limit to human stupidity... your friend's brother sure sounds like a poster-boy for it!

I'm amaze by how often a parent will get bent out of shape if you DARE to criticize something their child has done, rather than see a small problem for what it is and deal with it. stupid, stupid, stupid.... *sigh*


Hang in there - it's all new, fresh and raw... things may yet blow over. NT's are like that... momentary fights don't seem to mean as much as it does to us.



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17 Sep 2012, 3:23 pm

BlueMax wrote:
Hang in there - it's all new, fresh and raw... things may yet blow over. NT's are like that... momentary fights don't seem to mean as much as it does to us.


I hope it's not all new, fresh and raw..



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17 Sep 2012, 4:34 pm

BlueMax wrote:
There's no limit to human stupidity... your friend's brother sure sounds like a poster-boy for it!

I'm amaze by how often a parent will get bent out of shape if you DARE to criticize something their child has done, rather than see a small problem for what it is and deal with it. stupid, stupid, stupid.... *sigh*




Special snowflakes they call it. Parents who think their kids did no wrong.

It must be hard as a parent when someone tells you your kid did something and then you ask them about it and they deny it. Who do you believe, the person or your own child? It be your own darn fault too if you always believed your kids lies so they got away with everything. We had parents like that in our own neighborhood and my mother said all those parents were stupid and lazy.

I think parents find it easier when they believe their kids instead because they don't want to be the bad guy and it makes their jobs easier.


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