I don't even like many Aspergers people anymore

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22 Jul 2014, 9:09 pm

Maybe I've grown older now (23), but there's something that annoys me about people wish aspergers, especially when they become older and only want to selfishly talk amongs themselves.

Have you notices something? You ever notice how f*****g selfish and repulsive people get as they're getting older in this world? I just have to wonder why.

Does anyone else think there's a larger discinction between Aspergers and autism, too? For some reason I know how to tell a person who may have Aspergers apart from someone who has autism. They are generally a little more social, but still socially awkward and uses ASD mannerisms and speech. Someone with (very high functioning) autism I can at least relate too on a more compassionate level, since they have the same social gripes, perhaps.

I think narcissism and schizophrenia worsen with age. Especially with my case, as I've grown older, it seems like I can't be friends with anyone anymore.

Also I can't stop thinking about how true the MBTI was and how Carl Jung was absolutely brilliant in trying to come up with ways to classify people's personalities into 16 different types. It's absolutely amazing because of how incredibly accurate it is. Socionics is also derived from it, it seems. Along with the Enneagram, it's the best way to type people and determine acceptable relationships, as if I can tell who in the gene pool is more fun to have a conversation with. I'm not the best at typing people, but I could probably tell you the difference between an ISFP and an ISTP very clearly. Where I'm going with this is perhaps people with aspergers and people with autism is like the difference between an autistic INTJ and autistic INTP. I can't relate to INTJs very well anymore because sometimes they tend to by cynical of me, not very nice to me, and don't show their feelings very well at all. i can see right through them and they see right through me. They even share the same function stacks as ISFP, and I hate those kind of people too because I can't understand them at all.

A world with INTPs (my type) would be more preferable, just like when philosophy was the thing, and people were still trying to figure the world out. Whatever happened to philosophy anyway? It's just a shame that our complete answer to improving life turns out to be "transcendence" and the "singularity" because it's no longer about evolution. Mankind and womankind is a neoteny. it's like saying that God doesn't matter anymore at all, and it's true, because we are all Gods in our own sense. Why should we care about living an ideal life when it should be possible to do exactly what we want in our own reality?



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22 Jul 2014, 9:19 pm

Maybe I'll take one of the things I said back. When I was younger, I ever judged personalities so rashly. I didn't even think about MBTI, but it just changed my perspective forever.

Maybe that's why I was nicer. On the other hand, I do know that I get along perfectly well with people on the INTP forums place, the one with the black background. I just can't relate to young men and women of different personalities, and I really, really hate kids now.

As people age into 30+ I think maybe I will develop more Fe (extroverted feeling) as for now, I just want my life to get better. I hate people who appear or seem more "successful" than I do, or all that crap, but I just don't know why. Why do people between age 19-29 have to act so f*****g proud of themselves all the time. i mean, grow the f**k up.



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22 Jul 2014, 9:20 pm

As an Aspie in his 50s, I apologize on behalf of all old Aspies wherever we exist.


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23 Jul 2014, 2:47 am

I can understand, I sometimes get really annoyed with people, especially ones my own age (funnily, I seem to get along better with people with aspergers rather than other NT's). What helped me though, is realizing that hardly anybody really wants to be mean. Most of the time, it's due to factors outside their control, such as genetics and environment. I'm not making excuses on their behalf, it's only that it helps me understand them better.

I don't like feeling hateful to other people, so I always treat everyone with kindness and understanding. I try to practice agape. I love everybody, just on the basis that they are alive and have feelings. Sometimes though, it gets lonely. But, I have met a few people I really feel close to, and that's made things a little easier.

One thing is, my best friend can be rude and cynical, sometimes even mean. But the things I really like about him are that is he is loyal, honest, and caring. Even when he is grumpy sometimes, if I just explain to him how he was acting, he apologizes. And I know he always has my back.



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23 Jul 2014, 4:36 am

I'm also 23. I can't stand many people, old or young. However, I tend to get along with people on the spectrum more than in the average population.

I have noticed a lot of people have little to no empathy (to me). I tend to have "too much", so that's why it seems like they all have "too little". Eh. I just prefer animals.



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23 Jul 2014, 5:10 am

I don't like most people, wether they are NT or auti's. I actually prefer most auti's over NTs, but yeah I can understand what you mean. Some older aspies are very rigid and want to impose their opinion on you. Like they always want to teach you something. In my experience that's a minority though.



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23 Jul 2014, 8:43 am

I don't like anybody very much.



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23 Jul 2014, 9:04 am

I like you, Ann :D

I hope you like me LOL

I'm an older Aspie, and I'm not really rigid. In fact, I am the court jester of my office.

I like to be silly. I meow in my cubicle.



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23 Jul 2014, 9:13 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
I like to be silly. I meow in my cubicle.

If I worked in a cubicle I would be barking.



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23 Jul 2014, 9:20 am

And I would stroke you under your chin, after I offered you my hand :wink:



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23 Jul 2014, 12:31 pm

mrrhq wrote:
When I was younger, I ever judged personalities so rashly. I didn't even think about MBTI, but it just changed my perspective forever.

Maybe that's why I was nicer.


Me too. MBTI darkened my perspective of others, but at least now I now that I must avoid Feelers to maintain my sanity.



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23 Jul 2014, 3:06 pm

mrrhq wrote:
I'm not the best at typing people, but I could probably tell you the difference between an ISFP and an ISTP very clearly. Where I'm going with this is perhaps people with aspergers and people with autism is like the difference between an autistic INTJ and autistic INTP. I can't relate to INTJs very well anymore because sometimes they tend to by cynical of me, not very nice to me, and don't show their feelings very well at all. i can see right through them and they see right through me. They even share the same function stacks as ISFP, and I hate those kind of people too because I can't understand them at all.

A world with INTPs (my type) would be more preferable, just like when philosophy was the thing, and people were still trying to figure the world out.

I bet you hate me even more. I'm ISTJ (= AS + OCD).
Fortunately I don't care. :lol: