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AgusCahyo
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05 Oct 2016, 8:49 pm

And quite often they just left or kick me out with no clear explanation of what's going on.

I sometimes need friends to ask around what's wrong.

Kind of confusing.



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05 Oct 2016, 8:50 pm

Did you just get kicked out of somewhere?



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05 Oct 2016, 9:40 pm

yea. on another forum. didn't know why



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05 Oct 2016, 9:54 pm

What was said?


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06 Oct 2016, 2:09 am

Not really sure. I can only guess. This is my best guess.

I introduced my life and say that I want to learn about life.

Some mod joke about free car (with $23,999.99 shipping and handling).

I joked back that I want hot russian wife instead. How much?

Next time I know I am banned permanently :(

and that's highiqforum.com

Things that offend people feels funny to me and I have no idea why.

Trump jokes about there is no feminists in Japan because the japanese hunt whales. I was laughing. Well, the mod removes the link.

I feel that behind those funny joke there is a sacred truth. Okay, not sacred probably. But some hidden truth people don't talk about. The only way those truth can surface is through jokes.

In Trump case, we know that feminists, the kind that are against miss universe and porn, are ugly. So of course they want rules that do not give favorable advantage for prettier women. I think the rest should be on politic sub forum.



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06 Oct 2016, 2:28 am

AgusCahyo wrote:
Not really sure. I can only guess. This is my best guess. I introduced my life and say that I want to learn about life. Some mod joke about free car (with $23,999.99 shipping and handling). I joked back that I want hot russian wife instead. How much? Next time I know I am banned permanently :( and that's highiqforum.com Things that offend people feels funny to me and I have no idea why. Trump jokes about there is no feminists in Japan because the japanese hunt whales. I was laughing. Well, the mod removes the link. I feel that behind those funny joke there is a sacred truth. Okay, not sacred probably. But some hidden truth people don't talk about. The only way those truth can surface is through jokes. In Trump case, we know that feminists, the kind that are against miss universe and porn, are ugly. So of course they want rules that do not give favorable advantage for prettier women. I think the rest should be on politic sub forum.

I see a trend here. calling people ugly is not a way to engender goodwill, win friends and influence people. just sayin'.



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06 Oct 2016, 2:53 am

AgusCahyo wrote:
Not really sure. I can only guess. This is my best guess.

I introduced my life and say that I want to learn about life.

Some mod joke about free car (with $23,999.99 shipping and handling).

I joked back that I want hot russian wife instead. How much?

Next time I know I am banned permanently :(

and that's highiqforum.com

Things that offend people feels funny to me and I have no idea why.

Trump jokes about there is no feminists in Japan because the japanese hunt whales. I was laughing. Well, the mod removes the link.

I feel that behind those funny joke there is a sacred truth. Okay, not sacred probably. But some hidden truth people don't talk about. The only way those truth can surface is through jokes.

In Trump case, we know that feminists, the kind that are against miss universe and porn, are ugly. So of course they want rules that do not give favorable advantage for prettier women. I think the rest should be on politic sub forum.


Well, jokes about other "groups" or "types" of people I would not bring up. Anything brought up that is political will upset someone - so it's best left alone unless it's a political thread.

I'm laughing because I'm picking everything apart.

The Russian wife thing is saying that women can just be purchased - it's a crude joke. The joke about the free car with the high shipping actually made me laugh.

I think you're stereotyping people incorrectly (not in a good way) and that's going to get you in trouble. Some women (like myself) aren't big fans of porn, but I'm not really ugly. Religion comes into some things.

I think you have a unique sense of humor - does anyone in your family think the same way like your Ma or Pa? Maybe you grew up with people who had a sense of humor like you do?


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06 Oct 2016, 3:51 am

I think I am just sick with hypocrisy

So anything that expose that feels funny. don't know.

If women can't be bought that's fine.

However, how many poor kids are there complaining that they are poor because daddy isn't rich?

Now, their mom must have picked some guy that's not paying well.

To me, it's ridiculous for society to condemn women that sell themselves to highest bidder. And then blame capitalism for wealth inequality. If that women choose to sell themselves to millionaires, then her kids would have been rich. If she doesn't choose, it'll be her choice. In all cases, there will be no need to blame capitalism. Every women can have rich kids if she pick rich dad for her sons.



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06 Oct 2016, 3:57 am

AgusCahyo wrote:
I think I am just sick with hypocrisy So anything that expose that feels funny. don't know.

humor can be used to both amuse as well as cut. just remember that those who live in glass houses should not throw stones. subforums outside of PP&R are made of glass, that is a good way to think of it, so you would do better to confine hypocritic bubble bursting therein. also a reminder, the haven is a soft place, a place for support, and not for posts that the average person might find to be harsh or cutting or tonedeaf. if you have a problem, post it here, but if you want to pop bubbles, do it in a hard place like PP and R, please.



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06 Oct 2016, 3:59 am

Everyone has their own sense of humor. Not everyone is going to like your jokes. I don't like racist jokes but I do like blonde jokes and autistic jokes and OCD jokes but not those meme ones I often see online, those are boring. I even make people jokes too sometimes like I will say to my husband they are "husband proof" as a joke when he had a hard time opening something or using something.

Sorry you got banned instead of given a warning.


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06 Oct 2016, 4:11 am

AgusCahyo wrote:
I think I am just sick with hypocrisy

So anything that expose that feels funny. don't know.

If women can't be bought that's fine.

However, how many poor kids are there complaining that they are poor because daddy isn't rich?

Now, their mom must have picked some guy that's not paying well.

To me, it's ridiculous for society to condemn women that sell themselves to highest bidder. And then blame capitalism for wealth inequality. If that women choose to sell themselves to millionaires, then her kids would have been rich. If she doesn't choose, it'll be her choice. In all cases, there will be no need to blame capitalism. Every women can have rich kids if she pick rich dad for her sons.


When you explain yourself, what you say is seen as an opinion. The problem comes in with the jokes you use because they are offensive to certain people - like that post that was just deleted. In America it is a free country still, so you have a right to have those views, but it's not tolerated on forums and that's why you were banned (or almost banned) - it was against forum rules. You might just want to leave the jokes at the door because they are falling flat. No offense.


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06 Oct 2016, 6:25 am

So the haven is the right place for it? My opinion on women and money is not a joke. What is PP & R?

Anyway thanks for the support.

Yea I don't meet people much and in learning math, I only care of what's true. Not what people think. So many things I said can be very blunt I guess.

As a businessman I do not need to be politically incorrect. Basically I have a tenure on my own biz.

Not even professors in US can say politically incorrect thing. I can. Of course that doesn't mean I will be accepted by many.

Actually that's the real reason why I am a businessman. I am pretty much fired anywhere else.



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06 Oct 2016, 6:30 am

AgusCahyo wrote:
So the haven is the right place for it? My opinion on women and money is not a joke. What is PP & R?

the haven is exactly the WRONG place for your posts as they have been so far. Politics, Philosophy & Religion is the forum you may want to try. the Haven is for people in a vulnerable state seeking support, and is NOT for "jokes."



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06 Oct 2016, 6:31 am

Well. I often got people hate me for things I do not understand. I am a victim of fraud. So I guess I feel pretty vulnerable. He he he he. Seriously... I really do.

Sorry...



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06 Oct 2016, 6:34 am

I fave faith in you that you will learn. :star:



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06 Oct 2016, 7:00 am

auntblabby wrote:
I fave faith in you that you will learn. :star:

Hei thanks.

By the way, here is another issue. I am disgusted with things people honor. Religion, government, for example, are things people consider sacred.

The word sacred it self instill stomach churns. Oh this irrational guy wants to run my life and can't give me good math model so he resorts to nonsense. Usually I run away, get into trouble, and people blame me again. I feel even more disgusted.