KitLily wrote:
She lived 5 mins walk away from us for 14 years, during that time I had a baby (her only grandchild) and I'm her only child. She got so annoyed with us. We were too demanding, we tied her down too much, we weren't exciting enough. So she stormed off when her only grandchild was 13, and moved 2 hours' drive away. Now she doesn't see us every day, she moans that she never sees us. Yet if we live near her, she moans about that too. She is never satisfied and I don't feel much for her now.
Sorry you're still dealing with this, KL.
If it's a cognitive decline and not physical, she's likely got a lot of time left for you to visit.
There's no rush unless the staff tell you so.
My ex-MIL babysat once at 4 months, and said the baby was "a going concern" and "too much work".
We had only gone to a movie.
She said she'd never babysit again.
Did the baby cry? No
Did you have to change a nappy? No
Did the baby sleep? Yes
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