Hard Choices

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How do you make the hard choices? The ones that really don't seem to have any positive resolution?

I have choices, where I can either be run into the ground by someone, fight and maybe lose, maybe win, in court, or I can file criminal charges against people. I don't want to be forced into something against my will, I don't want a court battle, and I can't help but feel that I don't want to ruin these people's lives by pressing charges...

How do you choose between your personal freedoms, and between the lives of a group of people being irrevocably changed by being arrested and charged?

I sometimes curse the fact that I care too much. Why should I care, they broke the law, they should be charged. But still, I can't commit myself to actually setting in motion their arrests and formally pressing charges... I never was good at seeking justice... Not on the playground as a child, not in the dumpster about to be emptied and crushed, not in the school, inside the locker, not now either.

how do you deal with hard choises? thats a difficult thing to do. because the right thing to do is the thing that will hurt now. but I think that if you choose the wrong thing, it will hurt alot more LATER