I feel sick!

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I felt like I was gona throw up a few hours ago.

Then i just burped and a bit went up in my mouth.

Am i gonna throw up?

Is this caused by stress?

how can i prevent myself from throwing up?

will backing soda help any?

need info asap!

I sometimes feel like throwing up when I am stressed - especially emotionally stressed. I haven't really found a way of making it better other than lying down for a few hours and concentrating on slowing my breathing...drinking stuff usually makes it worse for me.

I'm scared my mom is gonna die. my dad told her to get up and walk around right after the doctor told her if she gets up it could damage her lungs and send her to the icu.

I feel like he is trying to kill her or something. why would my dad tell her something that the doctor said not to do?

then he started pressing buttons on her breathing machine to mess it up.

He said he was doing it to get the nurses to come in the room.

I told him the nurses didn't have access to that machine. only the respiratory people were allowed to do anything with it.

I know because they explained it all to me.

Then he said he fixed it but i know he didn't because the screen on the machine looked different.

Why is my dad doing this!! !

He beat me as a child , if he kills my mother i swear I'll take him to court for murder!

Oh god I'm so stressed out

Hang in there

People seem to want me to be fine during this. Its like they think my mom being in the hospital for over a week is nothing to stress over.

I just feel like my life is going to crap so it dose not matter what I do cause it cant get any worse. I feel like I don't care about the consequence of my actions because noting can happen that's any worse then this.

How do normal people deal with this?
Is it because I'm disabled that this is so stressful?

Or is this a normal reaction?

I feel like my life is spinning out of control

call the police?

Do you have contact information for the respiratory staff? If so, get in touch with them ASAP.

And like the above poster said, might not hurt to call the police as well.

Concentrate on your breathing and try to keep it nice, steady, and at a reasonable pace.

I don't know how old you are, but if you need to use the excuse to "go to the bathroom" to let the staff know what is going on, then do so. Let them know that you are afraid he's going to screw up the machines because he is messing with them.

If after you gather your thoughts and have talked to the staff you feel that the authorities need to be contacted then ask the staff to call them, or do so yourself. If you haven't reported the previous domestic violence charges, you may need to fill out paper work for when he beat you when you were younger as well.

The problem is if I do call the police it will stress my mom out.
Then her hart rate till go up and the doctors said it is very important to keep her hart rate down.

if it gets to high that can send her to the ICU as well. She is very fragile and anything can pus her into the ICU.

I'm so stressed. I cried myself to sleep last night and I'm still crying today.

should i tell my abuse therapist my appt is on the 3rd?

would it be possible to talk to staff and see if they can not let him in the room unsupervised?

I really hope you feel better soon.

don't take this the wrong way but,... I just can't believe what I'm reading.

Your father is deliberately trying to mess the machine up so that your mother will pass.
THAT IS f****d UP!,... do you understand,... like ,...f*****g NUTS!



Don't be scared of him (he's just miserable flesh and blood), just tell the authorities or the staff at the hospital. Tell them what your father is making her do and how he acts at home.

It's f*****g obvious that he's trying to deteriorate her health, you heard the doc, NO movement... 1+1=2

Do something about it while you still can, stop sulking you have to take the first step and let the problem be known only then can people help, your father sounds a bit disturbed. (sorry, that's f*****g crazy)

get to work!

Well my mother is doing better now and her machine didn't stop working so my moms ok.

I cant really do much about my dad. My mom loves him, sad but true. I can call the cops but I cannot prove abuse in the past. I don't think it will solve anything in fact it could make it worse.

If my mom was willing to leave him I would go after him in court but she isn't so I just try and keep him as calm as possible.
My dad has control problems.

I WILL tell the therapist at the abuse shelter on Friday. She may have some advice on how to handle it.

She deals with this sort of thing on a daily basis.

I want my mom to be safe . If I get the law after my dad and he goes free it could make it a lot worse . Plus he is the bread winner in the house so my family would be out on the street.

Sadly, I have to choose the lesser of 2 evils.

I believe in karma and i know his will bite him on the but hard when it gets to him.