Why are people quitting Facebook Messenger?

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01 Dec 2025, 12:31 pm

My friend Glenn recently quit the service along with his wife Maureen and my neighbor Anita!! !

Then I decided to Google if this was indicative of a larger issue with Meta (Facebook)/Facebook Messenger and sure enough the popularity has SIGNIFICANTLY dropped over the years!

I myself have also contemplated quitting the service because I think honestly it's a waste of time where you could be doing something more productive but right now it's the only way I can talk to my fiance David so I can't

What could be driving this trend?



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01 Dec 2025, 2:18 pm

So that might be why my brother hasn't seen or replied to my messages I sent him via Facebook messenger three weeks ago. He's been on Facebook since. So he must have deleted his messenger for some weird reason.


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01 Dec 2025, 3:27 pm

It's hard to use. It doesn't work for me half of the time.


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02 Dec 2025, 1:10 am

Quit facebook entirely, became a toxic wasteland (right before stating they would 'stop' filtering posts :roll: as if they bothered).



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03 Dec 2025, 12:41 am

Tamaya wrote:
So that might be why my brother hasn't seen or replied to my messages I sent him via Facebook messenger three weeks ago. He's been on Facebook since. So he must have deleted his messenger for some weird reason.


Hmm...it is a mystery...

I just deleted Facebook Messenger on my Kindle tablet and have dropped down to only using it on my iPod!! !

I wonder if people are abandoning Messenger but still retaining their Facebook accounts?

If that's the case then perhaps Facebook Messenger might be dying a slow death?!?



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03 Dec 2025, 6:46 am

I use Facebook messenger a lot.


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18 Dec 2025, 3:56 am

Glenn did NOT quit Facebook Messenger, he just stopped responding to me because of all of my repetitive questions



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30 Dec 2025, 10:50 pm

I copied your question into DuckDuckGo to see what came up, and the results are were interesting.
There were several results if anyone is interesting.


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30 Dec 2025, 11:12 pm

Meta and their products have a really bad reputation in geek communities. I think it's all the non-geeks who don't see a reason to leave. I talk to all my family and friends in Signal these days, with a very few stubborn stragglers in Whatsapp - they are unwilling to install Signal. I talk to absolutely nobody in Facebook, or FB Messenger.

There's a strong consensus in the Infosec community that Signal is the best for privacy these days.


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31 Dec 2025, 5:52 pm

I don't see the point of using Facebook Messenger anymore, so I no longer use it.


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