My sister always calls me fat :(

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10 Jul 2010, 8:14 pm

She always calls me fat or fatty when im eating, It kinda hurts my feelings although I do not admit it to her because it will make her feel like she has power. BLEH.
I don't think im fat at all. Im 5'8 and 130 lbs. What do I do to get her to stop? its really annoying and she thinks its funny. I try calling her fat back but she just says "your fatter then me so you cant say nothin" Please help meee. thank you.

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10 Jul 2010, 8:25 pm

You can't possibly be fat.

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10 Jul 2010, 8:28 pm

Kat15 wrote:

5'8 and 130lbs is not fat at all.

I'd probably just keep ignoring her or tell her to go away...you can't look at disgusting things while you eat.

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10 Jul 2010, 10:44 pm

5'8" is not fat. For some girls that might even be a little thin.

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10 Jul 2010, 10:53 pm

John_Browning wrote:

5'8" is not fat. For some girls that might even be a little thin.

When I went to the doctor about a year ago I was 5'7 but I figured since its been a year I will add on another inch. :3 I might be 5'7 though still.

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11 Jul 2010, 1:24 am

I'd call her smelly and hold my nose everytimne
she came round.

See how she likes it.

Keep accusing her of stinking and hold your
nose until she gets the point even if it takes
30 years.

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11 Jul 2010, 1:52 am

The weight you state is perfectly healthy for your height. You're much closer to being underweight than overweight. So you're definitely not fat, don't worry about that.

My advice for getting her to stop: Don't retaliate with insults, simply ignore her and walk away from the situation. If she stops getting a reaction from you, she'll eventually get bored and stop.

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11 Jul 2010, 2:10 am

Kat15 wrote:

Seems to me that she's jealous.

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13 Jul 2010, 1:38 am

My brothers did the same thing for years. I am 5'2" 120 lb.

I just told them I didn't care or didn't say anything and shrugged. They don't say anything anymore. She's likely continuing to do this because you're reacting to her so my best advice is to stop saying anything back and just ignore. But remember, she's not going to stop overnight or even over a few weeks likely (if she's like my siblings).

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13 Jul 2010, 1:38 am

:roll:

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13 Jul 2010, 1:17 pm

You are a healthy weight, a little on the low side even. Definitely not fat.

I agree with this post

LittleTigger wrote:

I'd call her smelly and hold my nose everytimne
she came round.

See how she likes it.

Keep accusing her of stinking and hold your
nose until she gets the point even if it takes
30 years.

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13 Jul 2010, 5:14 pm

Fat? You seem skinny to me. I'm 30 pounds heavier than you and im 5 foot 5 and no-one says im fat. I could do to lose a bit but just ignore her. A good punch in the face should do the trick.

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15 Jul 2010, 3:15 am

I'm 5'8" and I've never been that thin. It's very thin.

If you just ignore it or act sarcastically (like "yup...that's me, fat fattastic fatty") then she'll eventually stop. If she doesn't then she's either jealous, too dumb to come up with anything more clever, or just enjoys being rude.

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