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I always had large breasts, DD cups the most and then they got smaller after having kids. I used to hate them and moan about them so I always wore loose tops and refused to wear anything that showed cleavage or my breasts and I couldn't wear a two piece bathing suits because tops never fit my boobs and I couldn't wear cute bras because none were made in my size.
Then I read about big boob problems and I can relate to some of it like uniboobs, can't wear two piece, can't wear cute bras, wearing more than one sport bra (I wore two before I had kids) whenever I worked out, I never went without a bra because I didn't want them to get stretched out from lack of support. I always had to wear larger tops to accommodate my breasts and they always made me look fat in my clothes. Also how big they got when I got engorged and when I was breastfeeding they were now bigger than my mom's. They were like Dolly Parton's. I also would hold my boobs too at times to keep them from bouncing around when running so that was why I would wear two, sometimes more trying to reduce the bouncing.
But my husband says they are normal sized and my mom acted like my breasts were nothing because she had larger boobs than I did and they actually hurt her back, she couldn't see her toes or her waist, straps would dig into her shoulders, so for her me whining about how big my boobs were and how much I hate them probably came off as me whining because she had it worse than me and my boobs didn't impact my life. They didn't give me pain, I could still see my toes and my belly and bra straps didn't hurt me and I didn't have to spend $60 on a bra and I could still find my size in a regular store. But that still doesn't minimize what I went through when I had bigger breasts and learned to live with it and just accept it.
I was on twitter looking at the hashtag bigboobproblems and I saw a tweet by someone saying people with C cups have no idea what bigboobproblems are. I wondered how they would have felt if I was complaining about mine as a teen, would they have thought my boobs were nothing because they didn't cause me back pain or shoulder pain?
Also some things I didn't understand were how they kept complaining about button up blouses, why not just get a bigger size that fits over their breasts than trying to squeeze them in the shirt the buttons pop? That's what I always did.
Complaining about cleavage, why not just get a shirt that goes up to your collar bone? Why must they wear low shirts? That's what I always did.
Now after having kids, I can now finally wear low shirts and wear two piece and I feel my boobs are finally "normal" and I can try for cute bras. I found a Hello Kitty one at Goodwill and tried it on and got it. I wouldn't have been able to wore it before having kids because my boobs would have been too large. My kids gave me smaller boobs and it was free because I didn't have to pay for a breast reduction surgery. I can also go braless. I still wake up to my boob falling out of my bra but I got rid of all my old ones because they got too big and were worn and now most of mine are sport bras now but I can wear cute ones now.
So what would you consider big boobs? Some might not consider yours big if they do not impact your life like sports, laying down, limiting your activities, don't give you back or shoulder pain, don't make clothes shopping hard for you or make it "impossible" to hide your cleavage. Like I say, why not just wear shirts that goes up to your collar bone, why does it have to be low rise?
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Son: Diagnosed w/anxiety and ADHD. Also academic delayed and ASD lv 1.
Daughter: NT, no diagnoses. Possibly OCD. Is very private about herself.