A Question For Lesbians/Bi Girls

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Okay...this seems to be my favorite topic lately, but I'm just trying to figure this all out so I can get back to finding someone who will make me happy....not going after someone that will make everyone else happy. So I've got two lesbian-related questions....

1) Could a lesbian be with one man, sorta enjoy it, and then not enjoy any other man afterwards to the point where she doesn't have much, if any, desire for men?

2) The only sexual attraction I've had to men in the past several years have been ones that are impossible to ever actually have sex with...mainly fictional characters. Could a lesbian have those feelings? I ask because I'm remembering Rosie O' Donnell's big Tom Cruise crush in the 90's.

Sorry for all the same-sex questions here. I'd like to find a group for bi/les women to just talk to them and see what I find out about myself in the process. Any suggestions?

- Rhy

People can love who they wish without any regards to gender if they are open to it. There are no rules for these things unless your religion makes you have them.

I think for asperger people the whole emotional bit can be so hard, as we do not feel the way NTs do, when I was growing up (female by the way and have always gone out with males) men always told me some think was wrong with me, I knew I was different but had no idea why, still have problems with emotion attachment and feeling etc... but have come to terms with who I am and my differences now.

I'm not sure that I desire like others and can understand what your saying about "fictional characters" the unreal has always seem to be more attractive to me than reality. But isn't that because we often have to act to fit into the real world and have fun in ours!

First off, I'm a 28yo hetero male, so I apologize for posting in the women's forum, but I believe I have some relevant input.

Namely, that I'm pretty sure the attraction to fictional characters is more likely an aspie thing than an orientation thing. I've always been just as if not more emotionally attached to objects than people. This kept me from ever dating or so much as kissing a girl all through high school, because I thought there was some element of "liking" someone beyond finding her sexy that everyone but me was getting.

I've also always preferred hentai to normal pornography, and my turn-ons have gotten almost nonsensical in recent years, my most recent cartoon fixation being perfectly-spherical women. Not many examples of this beyond Nara in Robotix and whenever Don Patch gets dressed up in drag in BoBoBo-Bo-Bo-BoBo...

Okay if I stop here, will this post not be deleted? It's a relevant point, and I didn't get any weirder than that guy who confessed to finding coat-hangers sexy last week.