Are there any autistic people here who can't go out byself?

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AlexWelshman
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21 Aug 2011, 3:31 pm

Are there any autistic people here who are ynable to leave the house unaccompanied?



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21 Aug 2011, 3:35 pm

Sort of. Besides being both claustrophobic and agoraphobic, even though I prefer being by myself, when I go out, I like company. Not because I feel lonely, but I feel... a little safer, you know, like having a guide in a foreign country.



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21 Aug 2011, 3:38 pm

I am as capable as any normal person to go out alone. I do suffer from social phobia (thinking people are looking at me, etc), and having company makes me feel better, but otherwise I am capable of going out alone.


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21 Aug 2011, 3:54 pm

What is your purpose in asking this question?

I can get the mail. I can drive, but I can't go in any buildings by myself.



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21 Aug 2011, 4:02 pm

I was allowed to go out by myself until I had a meltdown in a shop and got banned :( Now I'm on 1:1 care but I don't mind because I feel safer with someone to help me.


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21 Aug 2011, 4:08 pm

I can't go into stores by myself. The first and last time my mom let me try that, the employees in the store kept following me around because they thought I was going to steal something. I was 14 at the time. On top of that, my mom is also worried about me getting lost or kidnapped.

I am however allowed to go to the park outside my backyard by myself, but only when my parents or brother are home.



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21 Aug 2011, 4:22 pm

SuperTrouper wrote:
What is your purpose in asking this question? .
Just so I can find out weather I'm alone in what happeens with me or not. Does that make sense?



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21 Aug 2011, 4:24 pm

I CAN go places alone, but definately prefer NOT to. :?


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21 Aug 2011, 4:32 pm

I can go out by myself. I actually kind of prefer it. going out with people means I have to be social. going out by myself means I am left to my own devices, which I kind of like.

that said, I still prefer to stay in the house, regardless.



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21 Aug 2011, 4:36 pm

My parent's forced me to do things on my own like going to stores that are in walking distance and they really made sure I could cross the street on my own by the time I was eight.


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21 Aug 2011, 4:41 pm

JWS wrote:
I CAN go places alone, but definately prefer NOT to. :?


This is me as well, but I have no idea if its because I'm a small female in a city instead of anything to do with my aspie-ness.



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21 Aug 2011, 5:17 pm

I have no problems physically with going out. I'm quiet enough and inconspicuous enough that no one suspects me of anything and I rarely get myself into dangerous situations. However I feel very uncomfortable when I'm forced to go to a store on my own or complete a chore that entails leaving the house on my own. I feel far more comfortable if I have someone I feel comfortable with with me.



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21 Aug 2011, 5:49 pm

It just depends. Some things I can do by myself, no problem. Others, not so much. I have somewhere very important to be at this very moment and I can't go because the person who ought to be going with me won't answer their phone.


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21 Aug 2011, 6:07 pm

I have gone many places alone for years. I'm not fond of it, but I do what I must.


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21 Aug 2011, 6:58 pm

I don't like going out much and when I do I am usually with someone.



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21 Aug 2011, 7:20 pm

I not only go out alone but prefer it. I also travel all over the world alone as a woman which freaks all my friends out. I don't like to be with people too much when I travel. I just keep mouth shut out there and stay out of really crowded places best I can. Has worked for me for 40 plus years. :)