Does the world accept Aspies/Autistics?

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18 Apr 2010, 2:01 pm

Yes discrimination occurs against autistic/aspie people and it is done with impunity unless it is one of us who metes out the punishment. I applied many times for a position at a local electronics store and was turned down repeatedly despite my qualifications. The person hired was almost always less qualified. So, I started my own repair service out of my home. I consistently beat the store's price. A couple of years later the store's owner kept asking me to come work for him. I did. When practical jokes are played on me, I try to find out who did it. If I cannot, then I will prank each person I suspected. I have also at times made people think I was psycho, so that they wouldn't mess with me.

Now days, I work for myself. I treat society and government the same way they both have treated me.


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18 Apr 2010, 4:27 pm

I would say that it depends on the circumstances. In school, I cought a great deal of flack and dealing with peers/the system was very painful. It was less pervasive, but ever present in College. As an adult, I find that myself and most other Aspies whom I know are actually seen as very charasmatic/likable/desirable people. In some instances, we are nearly on par (in albeit different ways) with some 'Don Juan' type NT's.

Also, I agree we are more excepted in environments that value practical know-how is valued over social acumen.



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18 Apr 2010, 4:39 pm

There are two factors:
1.Being documented with the label
2.Being sensed as odd
(which seems to be semi-artificial,
since the mass media continuously redefines social normality)

Unlabeled, I believe from experience that until intrinsic
oddness is noticed, whether it takes seconds or days
or more, you are assumed to be NT.



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18 Apr 2010, 7:15 pm

the world being the planet dosnt care either way


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19 Apr 2010, 12:54 am

Well Im glad that people took the time to respond. It seems as though there is some percentage who senses little discrimination, and some whom sense a lot. Like some people said, the answer to this question can be different when answered from different perspectives/ points of view. By discrimination I am trying to swing towards authority figures discriminating against those who suffer of autism. I understand that most people will discriminate against us because we're wierd/out of the norm, but in this case I felt that I was discriminated against by people who work in an authority state. Nevertheless thanks for taking the time to answer.



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19 Apr 2010, 1:48 am

In the part of the world I reside many would say "a what?". More would say "weird". The few that would know otherwise I've yet to meet.



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19 Apr 2010, 3:34 am

I've never had a problem. When I applied for university I mentioned it on my personal statement and got accepted for 5/6 of the places I applied to. I didn't have a problem with applying for phds either.



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19 Apr 2010, 11:55 am

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Does the world accept Aspies/Autistics?


No.



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19 Apr 2010, 2:07 pm

I think it depends. I am accepted in most circles and people are okay with my oddity. There are times that it is difficult. I don't interview well and so I always feel that there is a chance for discrimination because of that, but then again it could be that I'm just a bad interview. It's hard to say.
I definitely feel like I'm discriminated against in court. They often express that they feel I'm an incompetant parent because of my Asperger's. Gee, I wonder why I come across that way when I'm completely stressed out and ganged up on during court. I can't imagine. LOL.
In most of my life, I'm perfectly good and most people think so as well. I'm accepted most of the time and loved.....quirks and all.


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20 Apr 2010, 12:27 am

I was the guy who never got the job I interviewed for. But that was before I was ever diagnosed, or even entertained the possibility that I had Asperger's. With the self knowledge I have now, maybe things might have turned out differently.

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