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How many times do you bully people?
every chance you can get: 2%  2%  [ 1 ]
every chance you can get: 2%  2%  [ 1 ]
Frequently: 2%  2%  [ 1 ]
Frequently: 2%  2%  [ 1 ]
rarely: 13%  13%  [ 6 ]
rarely: 13%  13%  [ 6 ]
Never: 33%  33%  [ 15 ]
Never: 33%  33%  [ 15 ]
Total votes : 46

Morphia
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27 Aug 2006, 4:06 am

I have never bullied, though unitentially on occasion i've upset people by doing something that has intimidated them. As a child i was also very strong minded when i played with other children and would only play the way i wanted too, so i could be overbearing at times.

As an adult i stand pretty aloof most of the time and i would never bully someone because....well why would you?? the idea is just totally bizarre. I have very few opionions about other people and provided they leave me alone i tend to leave them alone in return.
I certainly could never be mean, insulting or violent to someone else, the thought would never evn cross my mind.


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27 Aug 2006, 5:19 am

I only bully back those that bully me first, I use my intellect to bully them back but quite often they are too stupid to get it. (this is of course NTs that are typically NT)

I don't bully people who have not done so first to me and only bother to with those that have if I feel like entertaining myself or making them feel and look a fool (That was their intention the other way round). Even if I don't feel a fool by what they have said, it was their intention and that deserves ridicule. turning the tables on them.


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27 Aug 2006, 7:59 am

Every chance I get. Cyberbulling is fun.



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27 Aug 2006, 8:56 am

Cool_aspie wrote:
subatai_baadur wrote:
It's a Ghandi quote, which I am sick of hearing. Tired of him considering what he did to the untouchables. I bully people because I was bullied myself, and I find it fun now. I'm not going to regret it because I consider people to deserve it if they are emotionally frail and are easy to pick on. I was and I got bullied and now I'm hardened to the world. Maybe I'm just a ba*****; I'm starting to question that.


Wow, it looks like you went through some hard times man, but there is no excuse for what you did to people that you bullied. They could go through life carrying the pain of your insults, which could possibly result in their suicide. I'm not trying to send you on a guilt trip, but I strongly encourage you to be kind to people who are frail and hurting inside since you were once the same way and you know how it feels to be bullied. I don't think you're a mean person because no one is born that way. Being kind to people will actually make you feel better about yourself, so stop being mean and change.


Very well said :)



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27 Aug 2006, 9:50 am

Thank you :D



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27 Aug 2006, 1:36 pm

Twice I have bullied, when I was a child, and when I was going through a tough period in my life.

I regret doing so and are ashamed. I will bear this shame for the rest of my days.

But I think it's ok to bully others back when they start bullying you. Like if someone lie to me I have no trouble tell a lie right back.

I like to reflect the people I am with.