Pokelover14 wrote:
Does anyone think that they have a better connection with animals then people. I feel so calm with a dog to hug then a person. Why is this?
I'm definitely the same.
I have never gravitated towards people (except for first degree rels), but I have always liked animals, and even as a child I had great compassion for them, but never towards people. Today, nothing has changed.
Why? Probably for the same reason some others gravitate towards people: Brain chemistry.
As many have already pointed out, animals are true, non-deceptive, non-judgemental, but they were still my natural preference before I was aware of that, going back to toddler age.
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I do not really like people to be honest, I prefer to be in the company of my pet cat. Because of this, there is a possibility that when my cat dies, the grief will be the same or even worse as losing a parent. If given a choose to save my pet cat or a human I would save my pet cat. My pet cat is part of my life, the stranger is not. That is how bad my dislike of humans can get.
I fail to see what that has to do with dislike. Of course I'd save the life of the
individual I love, and not simply someone happening to be a certain species! I could never live with myself otherwise. I realy dislike people in general, but I wouldn't have to dislike someone to choose my pet. The pet
always wins!
I have lost both beloved pets as well as beloved family members, and it is equally painful, and it takes years to get past the worst grief, and it's never completely gone for me.
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Time doesn't heal the wounds, it just thickens up the scars.