Does this girl have Asperger's?
You can tell she has it just by what she says about herself. Also how do they know she didn't learn to be that expressive? Maybe she has watched lot of documentaries or TV shows and watched how people move their hands and stuff and started to copy them. Maybe she has watched lot of movies too and watched the characters move their hands and watched their facial expressions and decided to mimic them. Or she could have been born with that normal trait and you don't need to have all the symptoms.
Some aspies are copycats and they copy other people and have no understanding of it. They just do it because they want to or because they want to be like everyone else.
I can't tell if her facial expressions were appropriate and hand gestures or not.
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Son: Diagnosed w/anxiety and ADHD. Also academic delayed and ASD lv 1.
Daughter: NT, no diagnoses. Possibly OCD. Is very private about herself.
So in that case, I guess one could consider me very "mild", but in other aspects (most of them), I'm definitely well into the aspie spectrum. That quiz that goes around? I scored 156 Aspie/39 NT.... and yet I'm a successful professional with friends and a successful marriage. People's internal battles may surprise you.
Are you me?
These are all things that to the outside person can be really subtle... my husband was a bit incredulous when I was diagnosed, but after thinking about it he was like "oh my God, it explains everything." Like I said... I can pretend to be normal fairly well, but I also have nearly 30 years of practice. When I was a teenager you would have figured it out in about 10 minutes of talking to me. I do have a difficult time maintaining friendships; it's both a defense mechanism and an inability to relate with others. The only person I can tolerate being around extensively, oddly enough, is my NT husband... otherwise, my closest friends are Aspies. The rest, come and go.
That settles it; you're me.
If that were the case, then this thread would never have been posted. The fact that she claims to have AS, yet apparently lacks most, if not all, the traits characteristic of an individual with AS, is what this is all about.
Personally, I'd like to believe that she's overcome many of the problems AS causes. Kinda gives one hope.

I didn't watch the whole video, but I watched a lot, and she reminds me of myself a lot actually. I could sit and reel off a story like that, I could talk on and on and on, but if you stepped in and asked me a question I'd probably just stop because I don't know what to say. I think generally Aspergers in females presents differently than it does in males, and I think most of them are higher functioning.
I've always been a mimicker; facial expressions; gestures; I sometimes catch myself mimicking ones on people on TV, though I didn't realise I was doing it when I was younger. According to my parents it's how I learned to talk. I watch people all the time, I analyse them, and I think I emulate them pretty convincingly; looks like she does too.
And since when was AS something you can see just by looking at someone? If you could tell just by looking at someone, why would we have to be diagnosed? Everyone presents differently, and none of them fill ALL the criteria. I went to college with 17 other teens with AS or HFA, some were just like her, some I never heard their voice, some couldn't even remember to have a shower a few times a week, some couldn't stand to hear loud noises, some just made grunting noises all the time, some seemed a lot normal than her even. You CAN'T tell just by watching a video of someone, those comments are just ridiculous.
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Your Aspie score: 150 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 44 of 200
You are very likely an Aspie.
If that were the case, then this thread would never have been posted. The fact that she claims to have AS, yet apparently lacks most, if not all, the traits characteristic of an individual with AS, is what this is all about.
Personally, I'd like to believe that she's overcome many of the problems AS causes. Kinda gives one hope.

That is the case. I said she seems very Asperger's TO ME. I can't speak for what she seems like to you. Here's what I see:
-She is pedantic and overexplains things
-She has difficulty speaking clearly and sounds like she has marbles in her mouth
-She stutters a little bit
-She rambles a lot, loses her train of thought while talking, and takes a long time to get her story out because she repeats herself a lot
Autism and Asperger's Syndrome show up differently in different people (in particular, it looks very different in women than in men) and many of us have learned to appear NT.
Indeed. I was implying that you are seeing what you want to see. I just didn't want to offend you.
-She has difficulty speaking clearly and sounds like she has marbles in her mouth
-She stutters a little bit
-She rambles a lot, loses her train of thought while talking, and takes a long time to get her story out because she repeats herself a lot
I will rewatch the video in the future and see if I can see what you see.
When Hans Asperger described AS...
Make of that what you will.

He described their interaction - or lack of - in a classroom full of children, he didn't watch videos of them on youtube talking to invisible viewers. It's a completely different situation, you can't tell just by looking at someone, you have to observe their behaviour and interaction with others, especially if they're high-functioning, that's why there's a set of criteria and you have to be assessed for a diagnosis, otherwise we'd simply have someone walk into a room and pick us out when we're kids.
In short, her AS may not be apparent at all unless she's trying to interact with others, I know mine certainly isn't.
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Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 44 of 200
You are very likely an Aspie.
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I actually took the yawning to be a either a stim and/or a sign of nerves. Even some NT's seem to yawn a lot when they are nervous.
As for can't be bothered with maths, something that I have learned from people who I know with learning difficulties is that it can be very easy to find something you can't grasp boring.
This person will interpret it as boring because they can't understand it, and dismiss it, without even fully realising themselves that they are struggling to understand it in the first place.
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