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I am always seeing resemblances in people. Sometimes its even hard to tell people apart in films because they look too alike.
I definitely have that problem, especially with men. I must drive my poor family nuts when we try to watch a film. I have to ask constantly who is who, what's going on, where they are and what all the subtle social bits that I missed actually mean. They're patient with me though. =]
I was wondering, since someone else here posted that they find it harder to recognise women, whether we recognise people within our own sex/race more easily than others, or whether we just happen to randomly find certain shapes/facial structures harder to distinguish than others.
It isn't so much that it will occur to me that so-and-so looks like Joe Bloggs, it’s more that I usually end up thinking that so-and-so is the same person as Joe Bloggs. It can become very confusing. I tend to recognise hair/eyelashes/certain features, rather than a whole face.
Most of my friends are part of the "alternative" scene, which really helps. They tend to have easily recognizable hair styles/colours, and unique facial jewelry, etc. I find that people without some sort of body modification/decoration [even if it’s just makeup] have nothing that I can latch onto, and they blur into a crowd of people that all look exactly the same to me.
I also find that if I can “latch onto” a particular facial feature or hairstyle, over time I can also gradually learn to recognize that person’s face, so that I’d recognize them even if they changed their hair. Whereas, if I never had something to immediately “latch onto” to begin with, I have no starting point and I never learn to properly recognize them.