How often do you divulge to people that you are disabled?

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I've just recently accepted my diagnosis and started to learn how autism affects me. I hate feeling like I am living inauthenticly, and I would like my friends to understand me better. Yet, I worry that their preconceived notions would get in the way, and that that would cause them to understand me LESS if I disclosed my diagnosis. They might make assumptions about me that are not true based on stereotypes. Things that they consider fun quirks might suddenly become symptoms of a "disease", and therefore bad. Instead of an odd-but-in-a-good-way person, I might suddenly become "disordered" in their eyes. While I have my struggles, I like being who I am. I don't want to be pitied or looked down on, even if it by people with good intentions.

I've considered telling my autistic friends, but have not had the opportunity yet.

A few signs for which I stand out: I might say something which someone much younger than me would say, flap my hands and fidget if I have to listen for a long time; maybe others can tell?