Doctors don’t believe me
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As said above the key is finding a clinician that understands how autism presents in females. If you go to university the psychology department or the disability office. If not the local Autism/Aspergers association might have recommendations.
Of note not understanding emotions or expressing them atypically is an autistic trait.
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blazingstar wrote:
Autism in females is often overlooked or misdiagnosed, because autism is expressed differently in females than in males.
The diagnostic criteria of autism as described and understood by most doctors including specialists has for decades been a description of autism in males.
Google "autism in women" or similar and you will find more information on this and will be more prepared.
If you have done well in school and in fact have autism, you likely are so good at masking that many doctors will not pick it up.
Good luck.
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The diagnostic criteria of autism as described and understood by most doctors including specialists has for decades been a description of autism in males.
Google "autism in women" or similar and you will find more information on this and will be more prepared.
If you have done well in school and in fact have autism, you likely are so good at masking that many doctors will not pick it up.
Good luck.
and Welcome
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blazingstar wrote:
The diagnostic criteria of autism as described and understood by most doctors including specialists has for decades been a description of autism in males.
That is obviously false since females are diagnosed according to the same diagnostic criteria. Even the ones who get a late diagnosis are diagnosed according to the same criteria.
Honestly it seems like whenever any female person comes on here suspecting that she is autistic, the "women present autism differently" brigade comes and suggests the same two things: finding a doctor who specializes in females and looking up female autism presentation.
Doctors who specialize in evaluating females are rare. This person has said in the OP that she can't access another doctor right now. So this is not good advice.
A lot of the information about how females manifest autism differently is anecdotal. And we don't know OP; she could have some typically "male" autistic traits, she may be undiagnosed for reasons other than her sex/atypical presentation.
So maybe the knee-jerk "female autism phenotype" WP welcome is not the best response.
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starkid wrote:
blazingstar wrote:
The diagnostic criteria of autism as described and understood by most doctors including specialists has for decades been a description of autism in males.
That is obviously false since females are diagnosed according to the same diagnostic criteria. Even the ones who get a late diagnosis are diagnosed according to the same criteria.
Honestly it seems like whenever any female person comes on here suspecting that she is autistic, the "women present autism differently" brigade comes and suggests the same two things: finding a doctor who specializes in females and looking up female autism presentation.
Doctors who specialize in evaluating females are rare. This person has said in the OP that she can't access another doctor right now. So this is not good advice.
A lot of the information about how females manifest autism differently is anecdotal. And we don't know OP; she could have some typically "male" autistic traits, she may be undiagnosed for reasons other than her sex/atypical presentation.
So maybe the knee-jerk "female autism phenotype" WP welcome is not the best response.
She said she can not afford a private clinician because she is out of work because of the pandemic. That makes finding and being able to use a competent clinician more difficult. It does not make it impossible. All I did was point her to sources who might be able to give her recommendations.
Doctors and specialists interpret both what they observe and the diagnostic criteria differently. Some do not take the criteria literally, they use them as guidelines, not as rules.
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