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Icarus_Falling
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31 Jan 2008, 5:16 pm

I've seemed slow or stupid in social contexts, and people have implied rather directly that this has been their interpretation of things. It doesn't bother me; it would in fact not be an unfair characterization to say that I'm socially ret*d.

I've never been accused of being intellectually ret*d; there've never been grounds on which to do so; what I lack in social intelligence, I more make up in raw processing power.

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31 Jan 2008, 5:19 pm

I think people think I'm ret*d (as of late - maybe not as a child)



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31 Jan 2008, 7:41 pm

MattD wrote:
Yeah when i was around 13 i got diagnosed with aspergers when i was in a foster family. The parents there told all the kids about me and they started calling me a ret*d and teasing me and they would laugh and say "your autistic, your autistic" :evil: :evil: . now i dont tell anyone about my aspergers.


WOW, that sounds STUPID!(Meaning that your detractors were stupid!)! !! It makes NO sense. I guess they thought that they were inferior and felt they had to try to knock someone else down.



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31 Jan 2008, 7:42 pm

Icarus_Falling wrote:
I've seemed slow or stupid in social contexts, and people have implied rather directly that this has been their interpretation of things. It doesn't bother me; it would in fact not be an unfair characterization to say that I'm socially ret*d.

I've never been accused of being intellectually ret*d; there've never been grounds on which to do so; what I lack in social intelligence, I more make up in raw processing power.

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Good fortune,

- Icarus avoids things he's not good at...


That describes ME as well!



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31 Jan 2008, 8:00 pm

Yep. Well, I dunno about now... People thought I was ret*d in primary school.



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31 Jan 2008, 9:12 pm

I am ret*d, emotionally.



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31 Jan 2008, 9:23 pm

Only women..... 8O


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31 Jan 2008, 10:03 pm

Lol!

People sometimes consider me ret*d. Oh well.



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31 Jan 2008, 11:32 pm

I feel extremely ret*d. I think when I was young many years ago that people did call me that. It made me feel bad. I think my IQ is in the negative range. Probably around -50. I am officially the dumbest person on Earth. What is 1+1 again? That question is too hard for me. Is it 39503? I don't know anything about anything except psychology and art. I have limited interests and that proves that I can't do anything useful. That is all for now.



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31 Jan 2008, 11:35 pm

FireBird wrote:
I feel extremely ret*d. I think when I was young many years ago that people did call me that. It made me feel bad. I think my IQ is in the negative range. Probably around -50. I am officially the dumbest person on Earth. What is 1+1 again? That question is too hard for me. Is it 39503? I don't know anything about anything except psychology and art. I have limited interests and that proves that I can't do anything useful. That is all for now.


But on the plus side, you do speak in complete sentences . . . Don't be so hard on yourself. I bet you have interests that just haven't blossomed yet.


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31 Jan 2008, 11:37 pm

Hmmm... I haven't been called a "ret*d" too often when I was a kid. I've been called a "friggin' geek/nerd" quite a bit, though.

To be fair, though, I haven't been diagnosed until I was 33, so alot of the "adolescent idiots" didn't have much of a chance to be completely cruel about the situation.

I'm not sure if this helps anybody at all, but I found that as the age goes up, the less B.S. occurs. Hard to explain, but people tend to be more tolerant as they get older.



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01 Feb 2008, 12:03 am

I have never been called that. I took a college course in biochemistry at the age of 12. Nobobdy would be foolish enough to try calling me that.



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01 Feb 2008, 12:18 am

lastcrazyhorn wrote:
I get two responses . . . three, if you combine the first two into one . . .

Either I'm mentally challenged or I'm part of the mental elite.


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01 Feb 2008, 1:28 am

From my speech, I see how someone could dub me as "slow"; I've been dubbed such before by "peers". I'm big, I move slow, and I talk slow; I learnt to pace my speech, otherwise I wouldn't get anything out, anything that's comprehensible anyway. I have really long pauses in-between sentences too. In grade 1/2 the teachers thought I was "slow" for I had trouble with reading/writing; I caught up quickly enough (I was always ok with mathematics).

Now, professionals think I'm highly intelligent (every time I see a new one I keep a count until they blurt it out; it's kinda a running joke over here); they just see me when I'm talking of something I have knowledge of, i.e., me.

I'm "ret*d" in some areas, above in others; the whole splintered cognitive pattern thingy.



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01 Feb 2008, 3:27 am

Everyone thinks i'm ret*d tbh.

I make myself into a laughing stock on purpose because it's funny.



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01 Feb 2008, 4:45 am

i was called ret*d in school. mostly by 1 kid. the others would call me other names or leave me alone.