What are some specific characteristics of girls/women with

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This isn't quite answering the question, but I've noticed women on the spectrum talk more on forums like this one than women not on the spectrum do on other forums. Normally women let men do most of the talking in public, but we charge right in. Clearly a deficiency in social understanding.

Female autistic compared to male autists: most likely we have more stereotypically feminine interests as a group compared to males. Duh.

Also, I suspect that we are better writers compared to male autists. Has anyone noticed that most of the famous people on the spectrum, especially those who have written books, are female? Female brains are less lateralized for language than male brains, so it's possible the deficits show a different pattern than in males.

For me it was unicorns, pegasus, castles, etc. However, I hated all things typically girly!! ! I could never relate to a princess as a child. I can remember playing with tonka trucks, hotwheel & matchbox cars, or other typical boy stuff. I also loved being physical...bike riding running, roller skating, skate boarding (I was alone in that activity, no other girls cared for it back then), etc. Despised dolls, jump rope (too uncoordinated anyway), playing house, or any other typical girl activity. They bored me to tears, no matter how hard anyone tried to encourage me.

The little philosopher suits me as a child.

I had no interest whatsoever in princesses and unicorns. I loved Lego and Jigsaw Puzzles. I was generally pretty bad at maths (had a problem with some things while being exceptionally good at others, like geometry) but always found it easy to learn languages and write.

from what I've noticed the most striking difference lies in social skills and empathy, girls definately show more talent in that field than the boys...

I LOVE jigsaw puzzles, even now:)

This is very interesting.
When coming up for reasons why I could be Aspergers and other reasons why I couldn't be, one of the reasons I couldn't be was that I always liked English and Psychology, and I thought that if I really had Aspergers then I should like maths and science. I guess that reason is gone.
Also, I've always loved going in to my imagination.
I've never been particularly girly either.

I wasn't very girly as a child either. I was very energetic and messy. I could never keepy my clothes nice.

I wasn't really big into princesses and things, though I liked them well enough. Sailor Moon was my big obsession, but even before then I loved to play fight. I always pretended I was a Power Ranger.

I was not very girly either. I recall normal girls as seeming as an entirely different entity from me...mysterious and fascinating..but nothing like me...this was when I was really little....But I knew i was not a boy, and boys seemed like something else too. I was really androgynous until shortly after I hit puberty. In all the pictures of me when I was really little, I looked like a boy. this was partially exacerbated by my (very asish) mom, who dressed me in gender-neutral clothes and I had a gender-neurtral haircut. I looked a bit like the little boy from the Shining. I did have pretend-play, and alot of the characters I pretended to be were male...but some were female..I would go from pretending I was Indiana Jones to Strawberry Shortcake in one swoop..(this was when I was a wee bit older and slightly more aware that I was a girl...

"There may still be too little attention for the gender-specifical side of autism. Asperger (1944) indicates that not only do boys present with autism more often than girls, but that the picture also is not so strong. He had the impression that autism presented itself in women more sharply with ageing, as if the autism would only in ageing reach full growth in women. We cannot name any research which indicates differences in the nature of autism between men and women, as Asperger did, but in our own experience we have also come across a similar picture, we are then discussing women of normal to above-average intelligence. In women, there is more often a case of severe mental handicap. [...]
The adult autistic women we have experienced ourselves, appear more 'undone', more crippled over a wide range, while the disorder in men seems more focused on the specific area of social interaction."

From:
Martine F. Delfos, Een vreemde wereld [...]; 7th edition (2008)
p. 106, my translation

The book is available in translation (A Strange World [...])

sorry girls, but i am interested in the subject & lurking

It seems as though the developmental issues I was experiencing as a child were simply not defined or addressed, (at leased not with me).....but I am pretty sure they were visible. I got better as I got older in alot of ways....though I do have alot of dysfunctions as an adult...more than some and less than others...but they do make their mark.