I repeat what I've said in other threads about this: I don't think it matters that much if a parent accepts the autism label or not. Much more important will be how they treat the child. Most members here don't feel there is effective treatment for autism, so what is the big deal on the label? What we do NOT know and what has NOT been detailed in any of these articles is how the parent's actually treated their son. How they worked or did not work with him; how they perceived him.
What would have been clear cause for negligence would have been failing to treat the seizures, and this article is very clear that the parents DID medicate for the seizures.
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Mom to an amazing young adult AS son, plus an also amazing non-AS daughter. Most likely part of the "Broader Autism Phenotype" (some traits).