Do you hate anybody?

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I can have spells of hatred (the wishing them dead kind), but over time they cool down to never trusting or being in proximity of the person ever again. I'll still feel antipathy towards the person, but I won't be fantasizing about them dying, or being on fire and begging me to put him out, and so forth.

Until then, though, I can think, "I hope he drops dead..." -- but eventually, I'll start thinking about how he probably has spouse or boyfriend/girlfriend, or even kids, and how they'd be messed up by that, and how they don't deserve that... So, eventually the death-fantasies turn into just hoping he gets a really painful (like hospitalization-level) genital rash or something.


(Some people really are "pieces of work," though.

The hardest people for me to understand are the type who are very loving to their friends, but would let you drown at their feet without lending a hand if you're not their friend (and not even their enemy, just a "nobody").)

I don't want her to die, I want her to live forever in horrible agony.

I have people in my life i have nothing against and i can despise people without any reason. So my conclusion is I hate what people represent. And yes, i secretly want people to feel my pain.

I don't really hate anybody. There are people who I don't want in my life, because they are untrustworthy or seriously annoying or something else, but I can't be bothered to hate them. I have hated people in the past, but it really took a lot of effort for very little gain. Ultimately, hating someone is boring. I'd rather just forget about people that I don't care for.

I get annoyed/irritated easily, and I dislike certain people's actions. However, it is VERY hard for me to actually hate someone - I try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt. You would have to have done something especially heinous to make me truly hate you.

No, but I hope to someday...

My emotions run a bit shallow, but a person needs a few goals to reach for.


Take care,

J.

Hatred takes too much effort and becomes a poison in your life - what I was told by someone who wronged me, annoying it's a valid point and normally a one I follow, with some exceptions; two ex boyfriends, an ex best friend, and an ex flatmate I REALLY hate.

Ex flatmate cost me my home (I was homeless for three years), a few grand (still have the debt now), and nearly my job. She goes after my boyfriends/ex-boyfriends, she'll lie about me saying the most despicable things while playing the sweet little victim, she'll give them STD's in the hopes I'll go back to them, and got pregnant with one ex just to deny him access as punishment for ever knowing me. She's falsely accused these and several friends of raping her, and has spent the past five years bad-mouthing me to everyone even though I've not seen her all this time. All I did was fed/clothed/sheltered her, got her a job, health care, and comforted when she was upset. OMG drama.

Sometimes hatred cannot be helped, some people become a poisonous evil within your life, it's only natural to hate such people to the point of wishing they would just die to get them out of your life...or at very least you can hope they get lost back to Canada!

wow bloodheart
now that is one evil person you described, but at the same time you wonder about the nature of evil and insanity and where/how such intersects with unfortunate genes and bad parental environment.

Holy crap, that person sounds like a sociopath. I can't imagine how I'd feel if someone did all that to me. That's really horrible.

I can see hate in some cases being a matter functional self-preservation. Wow.

Yeah I hate people. I would like to say I don't, but I do.

Theres a lot of people who I wouldn't care about if they died, a lot.

i won't say i hate these two people, but just the same i feel major dread in my gut for them- ann "the castrator" coulter and rush limburger cheese esquire.

I don't really hate anyone at the moment, I dislike a number of people, most people in fact.

Hate takes to much effort, and I'm lazy... someone really has to make me very angry before I'll take the effort to hate them, and I don't get mad easy.

It's really hard , i TRY to hate some people, i TRY to reember everything they have done to me and what it means about the kind of person they are, bu somehow i tend to forget and reset. I reset my relationships with people frequently, i don't do it on purpose, but i tend to react to what is said to me on the moment, the way that I've learnt is appropriate. An example: my step father is a monster, a mix of psychopath and sadist, and i try to remember my childhood in between each new encounter. But when my mother passes him to me on the phone, and he says hello, i reply hello, how are you. When he asks about my life, i answer and make little jokes. i also ask him about his life. The whole time , i'm on auto pilot, but when i hang up i think....what the...why am i still speaking to him?
So the answer is yes, sort of. I hate him, and i forget about it when he speaks to me as if nothing ever happened, then when the conversation is over, i remember who exactly i was talking to.

I'm the only perosn I hate