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Is this "in" now?
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26 Mar 2013, 2:30 am

I have used the Rain Man term. I thought I was the only one and I stuck it in my story recently. I have always intended it as a joke to refer to their behavior. I have even called my online friend Homer because he was always drinking whenever we were chatting.


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26 Mar 2013, 3:17 am

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I have used the Rain Man term. I thought I was the only one and I stuck it in my story recently. I have always intended it as a joke to refer to their behavior. I have even called my online friend Homer because he was always drinking whenever we were chatting.


I was about to respond to your post and then almost fell right into my desk when trying to prop my foot up........ Anyway... In some scenarios I guess it can be funny, but some people use it in a cruel way. It's reminds me of people who are white using the "N" word in front of or around black people. Maybe some people look at it like that? Is it acceptable even when it's said in a funny way. I guess it depends on one's relationship with the people who say it.



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26 Mar 2013, 4:23 am

I never relate to people who use these kinds of terms as I'm just not one to mindlessly insult others
so it's a type of behaviour that's completely alien to me

I do realise though that other words that are used as insults like moron, idiot and cretin are older words for people with a learning disability/possibly even autistic people and I use the idiot word sometimes as it has passed into everyday useage with most people forgetting its origins. It's the same principle though. If I don't like the word ret*d I should not be using idiot either.

And as for 'mong' - I find that word horrendously offensive! I would never ever use it.

The fact other people can be a lot more easy going about their word usage demonstrates to me how different I am from the majority and how words can have far more significance and power to me than to others. It's an example of how most people have incredibly thick skins and I have effectively no 'skin' in terms of my level of sensitivity.

The writer Doris Lessing wrote about having this lack of 'skin' and when I read this I felt a lot better about it
"I was born with skins too few. Or they were scrubbed off me by...robust and efficient hands."

She is a nobel-prize winning writer so I thought I'm in good company being like this.

Thick-skinned people have who exactly as their role models? Beavis & Butthead?

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26 Mar 2013, 4:52 am

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I have used the Rain Man term. I thought I was the only one and I stuck it in my story recently. I have always intended it as a joke to refer to their behavior. I have even called my online friend Homer because he was always drinking whenever we were chatting.


I was about to respond to your post and then almost fell right into my desk when trying to prop my foot up........ Anyway... In some scenarios I guess it can be funny, but some people use it in a cruel way. It's reminds me of people who are white using the "N" word in front of or around black people. Maybe some people look at it like that? Is it acceptable even when it's said in a funny way. I guess it depends on one's relationship with the people who say it.


I find it less offensive when a black person calls another black person that. It doesn't stop me from getting put off by the word when I hear it. If a white person wanted to call a black person that and the black person doesn't care, it still wouldn't stop me from being put off by it, especially if they say it to my face about the other person and it doesn't matter if the person doesn't mind being called that word.


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26 Mar 2013, 7:19 am

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I have heard this said in Australia

yes, so have i, only in primary schools. my sister used the term against me and my confused response was "yes i know i am..." i find it unacceptable and demeaning in the same way as i do "that's so gay".



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26 Mar 2013, 7:24 am

I have never heard "thats so autistic" used in conversation before. Most people say "thats ret*d" or "thats gay". I am giving examples, i apologize that they are all offensive.

Yet honestly i've never heard kids using "thats autistic" as slang until the original poster mentioned it.



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26 Mar 2013, 8:48 pm

I have heard people say this. Its mostly used by younger kids who dont really know what it is. Like when they call someone gay to say they are stupid before they know the meaning of it.



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26 Mar 2013, 9:11 pm

I've never heard the phrase "that's so autistic" before, and I was around dumb high school kids for three years. I have heard people say "I'm OCD about this" or "Why is that being so bipolar?"



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27 Mar 2013, 1:40 am

No, and glad I haven't heard that being tossed around my school. I would get pretty mad, I think. It already ticks me off to no end when girls are like: LOL I AHM SO OCD TODAY.

Or like: Gurhl, you're so OCD!
Response: I know right?

Or: I'm so ADD today. (That makes me really mad because I've got ADD problemos. Don't appreciate people making light of it like that! You can't just randomly decide when to have or not to have it!)

Glad I haven't heard autistic being thrown around like that. I go to school with supposedly smart people, they should know better than that. But I dunno. Teenage girls will be teenage girls.

I dunno, I just get really offended when people throw around OCD, ADD, or Autism like it's just cool slang for something.

I won't continue ranting, though I could.

((Heh, watch as I go to school Thursday and someone goes: That's so autistic" ))



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27 Mar 2013, 2:05 am

I have heard it used in a way to say that someone is obsessed with something



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27 Mar 2013, 2:51 am

I'm glad you guys haven't really been hearing it often. I personally think it will become a popular term used to define whatever they believe the term to mean. I was honestly pretty offended the first time I read it and heard it in person. The people who use it have no idea that I'm autistic, which is priceless.



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27 Mar 2013, 2:57 am

Fluffpuffgerbil wrote:
No, and glad I haven't heard that being tossed around my school. I would get pretty mad, I think. It already ticks me off to no end when girls are like: LOL I AHM SO OCD TODAY.

Or like: Gurhl, you're so OCD!
Response: I know right?

Or: I'm so ADD today. (That makes me really mad because I've got ADD problemos. Don't appreciate the people making light of it like that! You can't just randomly decide when to have or not to have it!)

Glad I haven't heard autistic being thrown around like that. I go to school with supposedly smart people, they should know better than that. But I dunno. Teenage girls will be teenage girls.

I dunno, I just get really offended when people throw around OCD, ADD, or Autism like it's just cool slang for something.

I won't continue ranting, though I could.

((Heh, watch as I go to school Thursday and someone goes: That's so autistic" ))


You have every right to be offended. It is offensive, but people are going to say that crap. That's just how they are... They say what they want, but if you say something back or retaliate, they can't handle it.



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27 Mar 2013, 2:58 am

Einfari wrote:
I've never heard the phrase "that's so autistic" before, and I was around dumb high school kids for three years. I have heard people say "I'm OCD about this" or "Why is that being so bipolar?"
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That's so true... I just wish people knew the definition of stuff before just saying it. So ignorant...



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27 Mar 2013, 3:00 am

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No idea but I've come aross people using the term 'ret*d' in the workplace and referring to peoples' behaviour as being 'as if they had Asperger's Syndrome' in newspaper articules

I challenged the person who used the term 'ret*d', saying that as an autistic person I found the word offensive and they went on to use it again at a later date when talking to me about another person, thus showing that explaining the offensive nature of a term to an NT will often make them all the more likely to use it again! :roll: I didn't say anything this time though as I realised she was just an offensive idiot trying to deliberately provoke me so I wouldn't give her her jollies!

If I'd used an ethnic pejorative term in the presence of the person using the 'ret*d' word I'm pretty sure she wouldn't have let it pass though.


No, of course they wouldn't allow that. Because you're being insensitive if you say something like that! :roll: :lol:



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27 Mar 2013, 1:47 pm

When I see someone who's acting in a very autistic like manner, I will make a mental note of it.



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27 Mar 2013, 2:35 pm

Drehmaschine wrote:
When I see someone who's acting in a very autistic like manner, I will make a mental note of it.


Same here, lol. It's interesting to see who might be on the spectrum.