Am I autistic?
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That';s exactly what the research in the book I read said was not true. It was roughly equal (no significant difference). This was research only comparing HF ASD people with NTs. The giftedness correlation is a stereotype. It's a bit annoying because it does encourage some people to think having AS would be cool.....like being labelled a genius. My friend from an ASD support group said someone (NT) actually said to her it'd be really cool to have AS and he wished he had it.
I think the stereotype comes from the fact that you have to have normal intelligence to get the diagnosis of AS in the first place (the criteria require "no global cognitive delay") and also from us sometimes having formal pedantic speech and special interests.
.....but daydreaming is VERY common among the general population (NTs) as well. It's particularly common with inattentive ADHD and the description of being in your own little world is too.
Well all I can say to you is, that one study is not proof. What one person says in one book is not proof. Studies have to be repeated and done so over large populations to be sure. And this still doesn't address my comment
I'm not talking about general daydreaming in the population, I'm talking about the cause behind this particular type of daydreaming and the environment in which it's used. OP said she is often spaced when with people/talking to people or something similar. And you are separating traits out again, we should be looking at the gestalt of OPs traits.
Point one: I know the one study doesn't prove it and studies have to be replicated, that's true. Still, I haven't seen any similar studies. This study showed that there were the SAME amount of gifted people in NT and AS populations -that's how it addresses the comment.
I think other studies would show the same thing-I would imagine there would be the same amount- but this is just a matter of conjecture. You also do not have evidence supporting your opinion either.The one speck of evidence I've seen either way supports my position and my opinion differs from yours-that's all I'm saying. There is no evidence showing giftedness is more common among those with ASD. I think a lot of people who have AS or suspect they do or have kids who have AS or they like the idea of it want to believe this.
Point 2: Okay, I take your point about looking at the whole picture but I have a friend who is NT, VERY NT and very socially skilled (I had her do the AQ and she scored 9- 16 is the average for NT's) also tunes out a lot -daydreams-while talking to people and in social situations. She fakes interest and listening as she's very socially adroit. We had a long conversation about this because I thought it was a strange thing I did and she said it's not at all and tried to teach me to fake listening. Other NT's I've asked in my family do this too-different people to different extents. My point is I see daydreaming as more of a human trait than an aspie trait.
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OK, I would love to be able to prove even to myself that what I say is true, if I find anything at some juncture I will append the thread when I find it. In the meantime:
http://www.nea.org/assets/docs/twiceexceptional.pdf
—Asperger Syndrome is generally considered to be a disorder that falls along the autism spectrum and is characterized by language and social impairments (hence, often referred to as high functioning autistics). Aside from their deficits in social functioning, these students are marked by a greater passion for acquiring knowledge and advanced skills in a variety of areas. Dr. Temple Grandin, Assistant Professor of Animal Science at Colorado State University and accomplished author and designer of animal facilities, has written of her experiences as an individual with autism.
http://staff.napier.ac.uk/services/sas/ ... rgers.aspx
male/female ratio of referrals is 10:1
male/female ratio of diagnosis is 4:1
excellent memory for factual and statistical information
poor memory for historical personal information
below-average to average non-verbal cognitive abilities
average to above-average verbal cognitive abilities
often gifted
can appear self-absorbed
hypersensitivity to sensory stimuli – noise, smell, light
needs a highly structured environment
Anyway...I think we derailed OP's post enough on this!
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^^^^
One more thing: All I can find is a lot of articles about how giftedness is often misdiagnosed as AS.
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[DOC] A Unique Challenge: Sorting Out the Differences Between Giftedness and Asperger's Disorder- you'll just have to copy and pate that.
and all sorts of less reliable not scholarly ones...and one showing the other way around-AS mistaken for giftedness. Anyway the characteristics of the two things -AS and giftedness overlap- have similar characteristics just like AS characteristics overlap with NVLD , ADHD, speech disorders (pragmatic ect). What you posted about about AS kids being passionate about academic subjects is just an overlapping trait - like disorganization for AS and ADHD. It doesn't mean there are more gifted kids with AS than without. There's no evidence for that.... some people just like to believe it.
Also your list of AS facts aren't all really facts: I know for a fact that below average-average nonverbal cognitive ability does not occur in more AS kids than not. I did a research paper comparing AS and NLD. One study showed more kids had this problem but it was refuted by many studies. Just so you don't argue that AS people have trouble with nonverbal social cues, which is true, that's not what the term means in psycho babble -it includes thing like visual perception/spatial relations ect. I don't think that people with AS are more often gifted is a "fact"- I can't find any evidence online to support or refute it though.
Hey guys, it's definitely worth looking at what evidence is out there and it looks like you've been doing your research! It's all good to know.
I think I mentioned the 'gifted student' trait because I wanted to outline all of the pieces of the picture that I thought could possibly be associated with AS.
I guess the main reason I wanted to ask the question on here was to find out how similar my experiences are with those that are on the spectrum so that I can determine whether it would be a good idea to get an assessment. In that case the specialist will have (hopefully) done the required research into the hard facts out there about what does and doesn't constitute AS (Including giftedness).
Thanks again to everyone for replying. A few of you who are diagnosed have commented that the experiences that I have seem to reflect yours to quite a degree. I really did not expect to get that kind of response. I felt guilty for even thinking that I might be AS, and when I imagine going to the doctor about it I just picture them laughing at me because they think i'm just being stupid. (sounds silly but I can't deny that that is part of what has put me off). From your responses I can see that my seeking an assessment may be deemed a reasonable course of action. I am definitely going to seek an assessment and try to make it with an individual who specialises in AS in females.
Thanks again.
Huh? You can't comment because she didn't describe her childhood? Or, you believe she cannot provide evidence of her childhood to get assessed?
Even with the worst case scenario, that she didn't have access to any childhood info, she could get a DX of PDD-NOS for that reason, if she met the diagnostic criteria with her adult symptoms.
I guess you are correct. I am just saying with childhood behavior it is easier to see that person is Asperger or Autistic. I had lot of odd behaviors that relate to asperger as a child. So if I were to say that someone is Asperger I would assume it relates at least partly to earyl childhood developement.
I find that you say you felt guilty for researching AS very interesting in OP as I too felt guilty, why did you feel this way?
**I just read your most recent post about feeling silly approaching a Dr too and certainly agree with this.
For me the guilt was because I felt like Aspie is a word sometimes wrongly applied to a deeply shy or introverted person or even used by some as they think it's cool or an excuse to behave badly without really knowing what it is. My research taught me that to be an Aspie is much more than shyness, if at all about shyness, but a genuine and often very difficult reality for many people. Some of this applies to me on a significant level - never been able to establish friendships - but at the same time I have managed to achieve allot, in my head I then think how can someone with a my life and history really be an Aspie.
Frequently I have had light bulb moments nearly everyday (obsessive research) with me realising this is why things bothered me so much , only yesterday I remembered how weird everyone found it that I used to think showers hurt as a child' etc . So Possibly because I looked at traits too stringently and possibly because I gave too little weight/forgot my own struggles, it took a while to accept myself as an Aspie and for a while I felt guilt for doing so.
You certainly sound like you have many traits and actually your place on the spectrum sounds not too far away from mine.
Anyone ever wish we could see us all on a spectrum graph? I just picture it in my head looking really pretty.
I too am a AQ33 but some times I test 29 or 31 (never 30 or 32).
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