Can People with Asperger's Syndrome travel AirPlanes alone

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Wah I hate airplanes and airports. But I have done it before as needed. All I'm going to say is that noise cancelling headphones are a life saver

Yes. I've done it many times. It can be uncomfortable if you're sitting next to chatty person though.

A delay of a flight can be a problem, because after the delayed flight, I may get into trouble when I must get another flight. Or I will be too late at the destination. I could miss the train and have to do an emergency arangement: booking a hotel for one night, and go home by train the next day. This will cause extra costs, about 100 euros for a good hotel.

Most of the time flights go well and I don't get into trouble. But the flight in Fort Lauderdale in Florida was first cancelled because there were too much snow in New York. So it will be Memphis. But then the flight got severely delayed because of technical problems. Then I decided to change to flight (which would be earlier than the delayed flight) to Atlanta. At that airport I had just 15 minutes to really run from one flight (Fort Lauderdale - Atlanta) to another (Atlanta - Schiphol, Netherlands). At Schiphol my luggage was not there so I had to fill in a web form, in which I said that my luggage was missing. Two days later my luggage came anyway, and everything was alright from then on.

But generally, I enjoy flying. These things can just happen, but with a bit of patience, everything will be alright.

I know a 12 yr old Aspie Girl who did this year...she had no issues.

I have flown many times, first time when I was 5. Alone and with companions. I do not find it a pleasure at all, just a necessity. I was much better when I came to the conclusion that if it was my day to die in an aeroplane crash, there was very little I could do about it, other than to accept it as fate.

Guideline for travel:
Airports is full of lights, noise and people and are quite stressful. They are also full of failed police officers who have a authority figure complex. The good thing is that airports are not chatty places, people keep to themselves. There's hours of waiting and miles of walking to do. All the information you need is displayed on notice boards that keep changing all the time - so find a spot to wait where you can see one. The announcements are usually unintelligible to anyone, aspie or not! You need things to do while you are waiting - book, headphones, puzzles whatever. But remember you cannot take your knitting (or anything sharp or any scissors - open your nicotine patch prior to going through security) - funny story some of the old ducks took their knitting on at our local country airport that has no security - and took the knitting through into the terminal when they got to Sydney and shut the whole airport down for hours for a security risk!

Dress completely straight - look a bit weird and the customs guys will have you off for interrogation. Never make jokes about bombs - maybe this is an Aussie thing - but they don't get it! Yes or no answers are all that is required - the more you talk the more likely they are of dragging you off.

The actual flight is boring and tedious, take several things to do, and something you might like to eat - the food they give you is inedible at the best of times. Headphone suggest to your neighbour you don't want to talk. Also get the isle seat - it's easy to get up an wander around, go to the toilet, have a bo peep at first class. You will of course have to get up for your neighbours. But it is less claustrophobic.