TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
What a weird thing for him to say. I once asked a similar question of my Bishop when I was trying to be a good little Mormon. I was told that each person is given a set of trials, and those with disabilities were given them so they could learn to rise above them. I then asked about the parents of disabled children, and he said parents are often given disabled children to teach them to be more compassionate and understanding.
And this is more of the type of answer I was expecting the OP had gotten. Or maybe that everyone has a purpose, and some of those purposes are less obvious than others, and over time each person comes to understand theirs, but that this conversation isn't really knowable to a 3rd party like a priest. And so on. There are so many reasonable possible explanations, I don't know why the OP's priest had to come up with a such a condescending one.
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Mom to an amazing young adult AS son, plus an also amazing non-AS daughter. Most likely part of the "Broader Autism Phenotype" (some traits).