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donnie_darko
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22 Feb 2011, 12:13 pm

By hate I mean, wish nothing but pain on them and would be happy if they died? I don't hate anyone actually. I wish good for everyone.



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22 Feb 2011, 12:22 pm

I hate enough people to form a football team. If it was not for my fear of prison they would be resting in a shallow grave somewere.


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22 Feb 2011, 12:22 pm

I don't hold on to negative emotions as they tend to destroy you in your love of them.



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22 Feb 2011, 12:23 pm

Sure, but I only hate people who have done awful things. (And I'm not sure I go so far as to wish them dead.)



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22 Feb 2011, 12:25 pm

Hate is a waste of time and energy.
If you 'hate' someone, ban them from your life and move on.



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22 Feb 2011, 2:02 pm

There are a couple of Bs, one W, an H, and a couple of others who are likely super proud they trolled and acted mighty.

Yes, I hate them.



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22 Feb 2011, 2:05 pm

Hatred takes too much energy, There are some people that have made me very very angry and then the hatred starts. But it always fizzles out because it takes too much effort to sustain.


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22 Feb 2011, 2:09 pm

wavefreak58 wrote:
Hatred takes too much energy, There are some people that have made me very very angry and then the hatred starts. But it always fizzles out because it takes too much effort to sustain.


Haha, I'm the same, too lazy for hatred. It's a lot of work for no reward.


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22 Feb 2011, 2:22 pm

There are two people I hate. This really takes no energy, and it doesn't harm me to hate them. It's more like inertia, and would probably take energy for me to stop. Both are, indeed, banned from my life - although in one case this impacts my ability to do things than it does his, but whatever.

I can't forgive my abusers. Forgiveness was part of the cycle of abuse. Even though they are not in my life, I won't participate in that cycle any longer, so no forgiveness, and continuing hatred.

I have seen someone act on hatred on a daily basis, and he did spend so much energy on hatred that it was just exhausting to see him at work. He'd be so much happier if he didn't spend that energy on expressing his hatred for people who didn't care whether he lived or died (but I was one of those people, so I may be biased. I don't hate him, but I did ban him from my life as well, and I wish he'd resolve the pain in his own life instead of lashing out at anyone who does not comply with his expectations).



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22 Feb 2011, 2:25 pm

I dislike people, I have temporary bouts of hatred after particularly bad encounters, but I rarely hold onto hate. There's only one person I can say I really hate after years, and that's my former math teacher. She was also my IEP adviser and was a terrible excuse for a human being. She would do things which were listed in my IEP as things that set me off and cause me to go into breakdowns, and picked on me throughout class. She set me into terrible episodes in front of everyone and then seemed to almost be laughing at me.

That woman can die in a fiery pit for all I care. She doesn't deserve anything good to happen to her in her life.



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22 Feb 2011, 2:31 pm

Not really, no. There are people I think the world would be better off without, but I wouldn't say that I hate them. I'll avoid them and be annoyed when I see them, but not much more than that.



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22 Feb 2011, 2:36 pm

I procrastinate too much and am too forgetful to hold on to hate. Plus it gets in the way of learning.



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22 Feb 2011, 2:37 pm

I hate everyone but I do know that wishing death on them can never completely cure my hatred of them. I only want them to own up to the ways that they have wronged me instead of calling me out for the ways I have wronged them.



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22 Feb 2011, 2:51 pm

I only feel it towards very few people, but yes.



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22 Feb 2011, 2:59 pm

No. Hate only corrupts the good things in your life.



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22 Feb 2011, 3:27 pm

Yes I do hate people, until I forgive them for whatever they've done that made me hate them.
Then I can no longer hate them.
I'm in agreement with the philosophy that hate breeds hate, love breeds love.