Defensiveness normally comes from some sort of trigger.... Not sure what it could be, apart from the idea of taking away our individuality amongst the ASD community?
I like looking for patterns and common themes, also, and people get defensive with me about it
Brock wrote:
The Smiths, Radiohead, Bob Dylan, Bjork, David Bowie,
I like all of this music myself, in particular radiohead and david bowie. They aren't my main passion though.
My favourite bands are Pearl Jam, Muse, Placebo, Smashing Pumpkins, Everclear (used to be one of my special interests!!), Rammstein, Nirvana, Simon & Garfunkel, Tori Amos...
Most of these are from the 90s, which is when I was a teenager. I think many people get stuck in the music that they liked as a teenager, forever, for some reason.
For me, I love music that has lots of emotion in it. I dislike modern day hip hop, R&B, and pop music, because I find it lacking in depth. It is a very surface music, if that makes sense. Surface level and hence multitasking stuff I associate with NTs, whereas localised, deep, one area at a time stuff I associate with ASDs...
Just my 2c