tactic mistakes and losing something dear

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I made a relating tactic mistake that cost me something very dear to me last week. I often make relating tactic mistakes. Is this something we have to live with due to AS?

Well it all depends on the context of things. All our decisions can from some point of view be seen as wrong decisions and all our decisions can be from other point of view seen as right decisions. You see wrong and right do not exist unless you do not find common ground for objectivity. As my subjective view may differ from your subjective view we would have to first know what your decision process as such has to do with objectivity and the variabels in your decisions, that is what decisions you make when you make the final decision since all current decisions are a product of past decisions. In other words decisions are not always a linear process and in many ways are not a product of current decision process as we like to many times believe. Not to mention the fact that all decisions that we make are made up with accordance of what we know and what we want to achieve. It is a truly complicated and hard to explain process. Not to mention analyzing it is even more difficult. One could say that there is no way of telling weather your decision was even wrong or right. Some decisions can be viewed as both under such and such circumstances.

So the way to look at this is very difficult. One can see the decision process as a product of psychological or logical, or both. Not to mention that both psychological and logical factors influence each other in many hard to understand ways.

I'll go with that, just let a medium mistake remain a medium mistake (of course, sometimes we're cut no slack at all).

I've also been helped by the approach, if someone needs space, go ahead and give them space, without the intermediary step of asking whether they should need space.