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Bernana
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25 Jan 2014, 3:34 pm

I feel a little resentful towards guys in general. It's not that I hate them all; I have a boyfriend and he's fine. I just feel inferior to them, because they have put me down a lot, calling me an ugly psycho and what not. I have been envious of boys, including my bf. I am also worried about getting too close, as I feel that that would make me feel like I've lost.
Is this normal? Anyone experienced this?



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25 Jan 2014, 4:37 pm

How does this fall into the catagory of "autism discussion"?


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25 Jan 2014, 4:41 pm

It doesn't...
where else can I put it?



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25 Jan 2014, 4:49 pm

Not here.

Again, this is the "General Autism Discussion" forum.

By your own admission, this thread doesn't belong here, so why did you put it here?

Please use this link-
http://www.wrongplanet.net/forums.html

You might then want to scroll down thru the forum list, and chose a place more appropriate.

Don't mean to sound maniacal here, but there are different forums for different reasons, and this one isn't for relationship or social talk (unless it's directly related to autism).


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You seem to have both Aspie and neurotypical traits

What would these results mean? Been told here I must be a "half pint".


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25 Jan 2014, 5:34 pm

Can't moderators move the thread if requested?

I've seen bullying occur between guys and girls, guys and guys, girls and guys, etc. It's not limited by sex, gender, race, profession, or anything else. How did you overcome these feelings to meet your boyfriend, though? Is he different than most of the guys you've met?



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25 Jan 2014, 5:36 pm

I have re-posted in the women's discussion.



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25 Jan 2014, 5:40 pm

It has been the opposite for me.
Most of the people who bullied me were girls, there wrre some boys as well, but few ones and many, many girls. Most boys just completely ignored me.
I feel resentful towards guys when I see that they go after stuck up girls that treat them like s***. Well, that's what they deserve for being so idiotic after all.



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25 Jan 2014, 6:51 pm

droppy wrote:
It has been the opposite for me.
Most of the people who bullied me were girls, there wrre some boys as well, but few ones and many, many girls. Most boys just completely ignored me.
I feel resentful towards guys when I see that they go after stuck up girls that treat them like s***. Well, that's what they deserve for being so idiotic after all.


Same here, I am usually bullied by girls, not guys, although there have been a few guys whom have bullied me in the past.

I don't get annoyed with them dating the stuck up ones, I get annoyed with them preferring the manipulative dishonest ones. I am learning to accept that those are the kinds of girls men prefer though. I am the loyal honest type who doesn't like to play games and likes my partner to feel loved, comfortable and happy. No one I am attracted to ever wants someone like me and I can't be with someone I am not attracted to just for the sake of having a partner. So I stay single.

On the bright side I don't have to share the rights to the remote control for the TV.



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26 Jan 2014, 5:35 am

my bullies were male 95% of the time growing up. females would just ignore me more often then not.



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26 Jan 2014, 6:53 am

Bernana wrote:
I feel a little resentful towards guys in general. It's not that I hate them all; I have a boyfriend and he's fine. I just feel inferior to them, because they have put me down a lot, calling me an ugly psycho and what not. I have been envious of boys, including my bf. I am also worried about getting too close, as I feel that that would make me feel like I've lost.
Is this normal? Anyone experienced this?

What country are you in?



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26 Jan 2014, 6:58 am

JoeDaBro wrote:
Bernana wrote:
I feel a little resentful towards guys in general. It's not that I hate them all; I have a boyfriend and he's fine. I just feel inferior to them, because they have put me down a lot, calling me an ugly psycho and what not. I have been envious of boys, including my bf. I am also worried about getting too close, as I feel that that would make me feel like I've lost.
Is this normal? Anyone experienced this?

What country are you in?


I live in the UK