Page 1 of 2 [ 25 posts ]  Go to page 1, 2  Next

roygerdodger
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 15 Jul 2006
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,527
Location: High Point, North Carolina

15 Apr 2007, 1:38 pm

I wouldn't trust students to tell that I'm autistic, but how can I tell the teachers about it?

PS: I'm in high school.



daisybcfc
Hummingbird
Hummingbird

User avatar

Joined: 25 Mar 2007
Gender: Male
Posts: 18

15 Apr 2007, 1:50 pm

do u see a doctor about it? if so theyll happily write you a letter, they know how to explain it to an NT than we would too



matt271
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 27 Jan 2007
Gender: Male
Posts: 982
Location: Australia

15 Apr 2007, 1:58 pm

just say it while talking to ur teacher about w/e work. be like "its hard cuz im autistic" or w/e. and if u r, wouldnt they already know by seeing u every day and knowing the signs??



Elemental
Pileated woodpecker
Pileated woodpecker

User avatar

Joined: 4 Apr 2007
Age: 44
Gender: Male
Posts: 182

15 Apr 2007, 2:24 pm

Here's the essence of what I usually say.

"I have Aspergers Syndrome, a relatively mild austistic spectrum disorder. This can lead to problems with understanding subtext and unspoken elements of conversation, and can make working in very large groups uncomfortable at times. It also covers sensory issues which mean I can find some things like light or background noise distracting or aggravating, when other people aren't bothered by them.

Also, it can impede my ability to learn something through instructions alone—I have found that trying out the task practically, and having someone whom I can check my progress with in the early stages of learning, is more effective."


I've had good experiences with simply saying this (altered for your specific issues, of course) openly and non-defensively.



matt271
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 27 Jan 2007
Gender: Male
Posts: 982
Location: Australia

15 Apr 2007, 2:30 pm

Elemental wrote:
Here's the essence of what I usually say.

"I have Aspergers Syndrome, a relatively mild austistic spectrum disorder. This can lead to problems with understanding subtext and unspoken elements of conversation, and can make working in very large groups uncomfortable at times. It also covers sensory issues which mean I can find some things like light or background noise distracting or aggravating, when other people aren't bothered by them.

Also, it can impede my ability to learn something through instructions alone—I have found that trying out the task practically, and having someone whom I can check my progress with in the early stages of learning, is more effective."


I've had good experiences with simply saying this (altered for your specific issues, of course) openly and non-defensively.


i just say "i have as"



roygerdodger
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 15 Jul 2006
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,527
Location: High Point, North Carolina

15 Apr 2007, 2:51 pm

matt271 wrote:
just say it while talking to ur teacher about w/e work. be like "its hard cuz im autistic" or w/e. and if u r, wouldnt they already know by seeing u every day and knowing the signs??


I didn't understand that.



roygerdodger
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 15 Jul 2006
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,527
Location: High Point, North Carolina

15 Apr 2007, 3:00 pm

Just so you know, here's how my school is like:

The students at my school are just usually dumb, immature gangster kids (even the special ed kids) and they often don't always notice me because they always too busy focusing on themselves.

I don't ever think my school doesn't know how to treat someone with autism because the staff are sometimes the same as the students.

I am in both special ed and mainstream classes, but it's total hell instead!

Both the students and teachers don't always notice me when I usually feeling sad about those things I said above and when I have trouble with stuff.

Me and my mom is trying to find a different high school for me to go to next year.



roygerdodger
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 15 Jul 2006
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,527
Location: High Point, North Carolina

15 Apr 2007, 4:22 pm

:( And nobody cares.



MsTriste
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 7 Dec 2005
Age: 61
Gender: Female
Posts: 3,307
Location: Not here

15 Apr 2007, 4:25 pm

High school sucks.

Good for you that your parents are trying to find a better one for you.

Do you have an IEP? Ask your parents to get one for you if you don't already.



EarthCalling
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 27 Mar 2007
Gender: Female
Posts: 817
Location: Ontario, Canada

15 Apr 2007, 4:26 pm

Does the school know you are autistic? (Are you AS?)

If not, they need to know. It sounds like you need a change in school. It will help though, if you document your concerns. Maybe you can write down the negative things that happen, or if you can't write, get a little recorder that you can say them into when you get a chance to be "discrete". Taping conversations can be a tricky legal issue, I would just give a personal account after the fact, then try to catch people "in the act". Unless it is "really bad and borders on a "legal offence".

If you can't get into a different school, have you thought about correspondance? What sort of support could you get with that or Homeschooling? Maybe not for all your classes, but you may find that being in only 1/2 days is more tolerable, and then you can do the subjects you don't need as much help or support with, or find difficult due to environment at home!

Maybe even with a change of schools, that would be better anyway!



roygerdodger
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 15 Jul 2006
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,527
Location: High Point, North Carolina

15 Apr 2007, 4:38 pm

aylissa wrote:
High school sucks.

Good for you that your parents are trying to find a better one for you.

Do you have an IEP? Ask your parents to get one for you if you don't already.


I already have an IEP.



roygerdodger
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 15 Jul 2006
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,527
Location: High Point, North Carolina

15 Apr 2007, 4:41 pm

EarthCalling wrote:
Does the school know you are autistic? (Are you AS?)

If not, they need to know. It sounds like you need a change in school. It will help though, if you document your concerns. Maybe you can write down the negative things that happen, or if you can't write, get a little recorder that you can say them into when you get a chance to be "discrete". Taping conversations can be a tricky legal issue, I would just give a personal account after the fact, then try to catch people "in the act". Unless it is "really bad and borders on a "legal offence".

If you can't get into a different school, have you thought about correspondance? What sort of support could you get with that or Homeschooling? Maybe not for all your classes, but you may find that being in only 1/2 days is more tolerable, and then you can do the subjects you don't need as much help or support with, or find difficult due to environment at home!

Maybe even with a change of schools, that would be better anyway!


I don't think my school know that I'm autistic (and I don't think I have AS because I learn too slow to have it.)



richardbenson
Xfractor Card #351
Xfractor Card #351

User avatar

Joined: 30 Oct 2006
Gender: Male
Posts: 13,553
Location: Leave only a footprint behind

15 Apr 2007, 4:46 pm

do you have an ISP at your school? if you do all your teachers should know about your autism



roygerdodger
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 15 Jul 2006
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,527
Location: High Point, North Carolina

15 Apr 2007, 4:52 pm

richardbenson wrote:
do you have an ISP at your school? if you do all your teachers should know about your autism


ISP? What's that?



richardbenson
Xfractor Card #351
Xfractor Card #351

User avatar

Joined: 30 Oct 2006
Gender: Male
Posts: 13,553
Location: Leave only a footprint behind

15 Apr 2007, 4:53 pm

individual service plan



Esperanza
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 10 Mar 2007
Age: 45
Gender: Female
Posts: 834
Location: Paradise

15 Apr 2007, 4:59 pm

ISP = Internet Service Provider. Not relevant.

IEP = Individual Education Plan

If you have an IEP, all your teachers should already know you're autistic.