What is the intention of NT girls if they rub on men?

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I know they show some kind of affection but I don't get their real intention because of my lack of empathie for acting like this. For me it's quite normal that a third of the girls in a normal disco rub their tits or shoulders once the pass some less start to rub their back may be even if they are dancing with another guy. OK, they want to seduce that way but I really don't get what they really expect to happen once they do it.

Don't worry about it till one of them tried talking to you and just enjoy dancing.

This happened to me 20+ years ago in a club during a live concert. The crowd was packed in like sardines, dancing in place, etc. A young woman in front of me obviously pressed her a** into my crotch and was gyrating into me. There was no way it was accidental. I wasn't sure what if anything she wanted me to do. Perfect stranger. I looked at my friend standing next to me to get his attention, looked at her and looked down. He had a look of surprise so I knew I wasn't imagining it. I think I tried to talk to her and touch her shoulder and she stopped. It was a weird experience.

The intention is to gauge his response, and if he responds positively and is sexy enough, then they'll probably make out or whatever.

Basically she wants him to dance seductively with her, for a start. To flirt with the bodies.

This is when I would just look happily at her (eyes) whilst slowly wrapping my arms around her.
And not letting go so that she knows I'm not going to just «discard» her quickly like some playa.
Then she's going to start acting like my girlfriend. I might even suggest to her that we go some place more quiet...
That way, the both of us will have more privacy and alone-time together, leading to «pleasurable» touchings... ;o

Some songs are 'sexy' like the horrible song "Sex on the beach" ; dancing sometimes involve 'role playing' that reflects the lyrics.

How about wrapping your arms around them and looking deep into their eyes. Is that EVER ok?
What do you do with your hands if someone grinds on you?
I think these points need clearing up by this point.

Exactly. Even though that was 20+ years ago and my desire was to grind back, touch her hips, etc, I had never met her before and didn't think it appropriate. Nor did I end up doing something I would have assumed she would have been ok with but end up offending her and winding up being the bad guy. Maybe to some it sounds silly, but I was confused by it. I was pleasantly surprised, but just did not know how to process it.

I think when a girl does that, the guy is supposed to dance like he's humping/having sex with her. I think this is just sexual dancing & doesn't really have any hidden meanings. They do it to be cool since it's popular at the clubs & in LOTs of music vids.

Lol, none of us really know for sure.

Maybe that's how it is now, but it wasn't back then. I forget who the band was, but it wasn't a hip hop or rap band. It wasn't overtly sexual music.

There is much that is sexy even in classical music.

The Waltz was once considered THE scandal dance.

Well, some songs are sexy, others are just sexual.

I am glad I am very tall. A woman's behind can't really reach that high

Personally, if it would happen, I would push her away. Did not ask to get touched like that. Would be incredibly uncomfortable, as I am a demisexual.

I am the kind of guy when a woman asks me to go home with her that says "No, thank you." Women like that are not my type, and I don't work like that.

I would be confused, and I would hope I didn’t get the wrong “message.”

In actuality, this has not happened to me.

I’ve only had women initiate intimate and sexual contact a few times. It’s more like they offer me subtle hints of desire.

I'll never forget the first time I went to a school dance my sophomore year of high school how weirded out I felt when my friends on the school's cheerleading squad first did it to me! Eventually I learned to embrace this newfangled style of dancing