Mindslave wrote:
My list is pretty brief:
A woman who doesn't force me to be responsible for her happiness. I can't make anyone happy. Nobody can.
A woman who is terrified of 'becoming a housewife'. Look, if you want to get married and live in a house, you're gonna be a housewife. Not all housewives get beaten, and many housewives are intelligent and are allowed to form a sentence. Cooking is NOT degrading. And not all women cook. My grandmother was a great woman and she didn't do the cooking. If you don't want to be a housewife, then don't get married! And if you don't want to get married, then why all the demands? The more serious the relationship, the more leeway you have to make demands.
A woman who can handle honest emotion, so I DON'T HAVE to lie to her. I don't want to feed her paranoia for the rest of my life.
I could list other things, but none of them are particularly important, and most of them fit into one of the three above 'categories'. Technically, the third one fits into the first one, but I put it down anyway.
Sounds like you are living in the 1950's, good luck finding her.