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29 Aug 2012, 12:17 am

yellowtamarin wrote:
My list is of things I don't want, not things that make someone a horrible person.


Well, crap.

That's the criteria I've been using to judge people's worth all this time. Would yellowtamarin date them?

Guess I'm gonna have to go back to using skin color and sexual orientation again.


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29 Aug 2012, 12:43 am

mds_02 wrote:
yellowtamarin wrote:
My list is of things I don't want, not things that make someone a horrible person.


Well, crap.

That's the criteria I've been using to judge people's worth all this time. Would yellowtamarin date them?

Guess I'm gonna have to go back to using skin color and sexual orientation again.

Hahaha, oh god, there are millions of amazing people in the world who I wouldn't date! Millions! Maybe even billions! You must be filled with such hatred for womankind!



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29 Aug 2012, 1:01 am

Was joking.

No hate for womankind.

None at all.

I think women are pretty much the best thing ever.


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29 Aug 2012, 1:17 am

mds_02 wrote:
Was joking.

No hate for womankind.

None at all.

I think women are pretty much the best thing ever.

Yes I assumed you were joking, as was I. I don't think I use enough smileys in this forum. Err... :|

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29 Aug 2012, 1:41 am

Mindslave wrote:
My list is pretty brief:

A woman who doesn't force me to be responsible for her happiness. I can't make anyone happy. Nobody can.
A woman who is terrified of 'becoming a housewife'. Look, if you want to get married and live in a house, you're gonna be a housewife. Not all housewives get beaten, and many housewives are intelligent and are allowed to form a sentence. Cooking is NOT degrading. And not all women cook. My grandmother was a great woman and she didn't do the cooking. If you don't want to be a housewife, then don't get married! And if you don't want to get married, then why all the demands? The more serious the relationship, the more leeway you have to make demands.
A woman who can handle honest emotion, so I DON'T HAVE to lie to her. I don't want to feed her paranoia for the rest of my life.

I could list other things, but none of them are particularly important, and most of them fit into one of the three above 'categories'. Technically, the third one fits into the first one, but I put it down anyway.


Sounds like you are living in the 1950's, good luck finding her.



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29 Aug 2012, 4:01 am

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I have three things I don't want

A boring girl
A clingly girl
A girl who is heroine chick skinny or bbw big.


How do you define boring?



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29 Aug 2012, 6:22 pm

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Lucky you I fail at # 1.3 .5 .
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oh part fail at #4 don't care for money though don't have any "dreams"

Clearly you are not the girl for me, aussiebloke ;)

The dreams part is not really that important, just that IF she has them, she shouldn't neglect to follow them just because some other crappy, meaningless job pays better.


I like the tone of your jig :wink:


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29 Aug 2012, 6:22 pm

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I have three things I don't want

A boring girl
A clingly girl
A girl who is heroine chick skinny or bbw big.


How do you define boring?[/quote]


Us :wink:


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29 Aug 2012, 6:37 pm

aussiebloke wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
thewhitrbbit wrote:
I have three things I don't want

A boring girl
A clingly girl
A girl who is heroine chick skinny or bbw big.


How do you define boring?[/quote]


Us :wink:


I knew that was coming :roll:

Nt's bore me but when I see a person with Aspergers saying they don't want someone boring I'm interested in their definition of boring ie is it the NT definition or a different one?



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29 Aug 2012, 6:43 pm

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yellowtamarin wrote:
Gosh, I'm super fussy, so my list would be pretty long if I included everything. Here's a few main ones though.

I don't want a woman who...

...I can't have an intellectual discussion with
...is superstitious, religious, or has her head in the clouds more often than not
...won't discuss her feelings with me when it's important
...is so money hungry that she isn't interested in following her dreams
...is an extreme extrovert
...refuses to learn or care about my AS traits.
good luck :wink:


Yeah.
I managed to fail on the third criteria :lol:.


oh dear fail at # 6 to :wink:


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29 Aug 2012, 6:44 pm

^^^ I would say "boring" is simply anyone not interested in the stuff YOU are.



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29 Aug 2012, 6:46 pm

nessa238 wrote:
aussiebloke wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
thewhitrbbit wrote:
I have three things I don't want

A boring girl
A clingly girl
A girl who is heroine chick skinny or bbw big.


How do you define boring?[/quote]


Us :wink:


I knew that was coming :roll:

Nt's bore me but when I see a person with Aspergers saying they don't want someone boring I'm interested in their definition of boring ie is it the NT definition or a different one?


One that puts out with out the whine-ing and dining .*

Bet you knew that was coming to . :wink:

*I'm just happy eating french fries on the beach , are you :wink:


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29 Aug 2012, 6:49 pm

aussiebloke wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
aussiebloke wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
thewhitrbbit wrote:
I have three things I don't want

A boring girl
A clingly girl
A girl who is heroine chick skinny or bbw big.


How do you define boring?[/quote]


Us :wink:


I knew that was coming :roll:

Nt's bore me but when I see a person with Aspergers saying they don't want someone boring I'm interested in their definition of boring ie is it the NT definition or a different one?


One that puts out with out the whine-ing and dining .*

Bet you knew that was coming to . :wink:

*I'm just happy eating french fries on the beach , are you :wink:


I don't get what you mean

"One that puts out with out the whine-ing and dining" = boring?

That makes no sense



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29 Aug 2012, 6:52 pm

^^^^

no offense think about it and than get back to me :wink:


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29 Aug 2012, 6:57 pm

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^^^^

no offense think about it and than get back to me :wink:


I have and couldn't work it out so explain please?



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29 Aug 2012, 7:00 pm

nessa238 wrote:
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^^^^

no offense think about it and than get back to me :wink:


I have and couldn't work it out so explain please?



A women that puts out for free.

Women sound expensive and whiney, thats why I don't bother with them.


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