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The_Face_of_Boo
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26 Mar 2019, 8:36 am

MelodyPadilla98 wrote:
I'll never understand the need to not be a virgin. What's so bad about it?

Society has brainwashed us into thinking what's normal



I have not met a woman (dating setting) who hasn't asked me about my previous experience, including previous sexual experience.

Yes, they do check, they do judge.

(Note: Losing it to an escort will not help you in this regard)



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26 Mar 2019, 9:00 am

I bet you have some interesting interests, Uri.

Many people who are "adult virgins" have things going for them.

To me, in all honesty, being a "virgin" doesn't diminish a person one bit.

And: you don't have to tell others that you're a virgin.



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26 Mar 2019, 10:58 pm

Uri wrote:
I'm an adult virgin too and many days I'm not able to cope with the loneliness and depression. I live a very socially secluded life and there are days where I can't take it anymore and I am really thinking about dying. There are days when I feel so sad and angry and jealous over the fact that no pretty girl will ever want anything to do with me and will always reject me and go for other guys who are much better than me. There are days where I really really want to die. I mean what's the point of being alive on this stupid planet if I will never be able to have any positive interactions with girls (or with other people in general)? I think I'd rather be dead and buried than keep living like this because I really can't stand the loneliness, the extreme isolation and the jealousy anymore.

one eventually comes to terms with one's life if one is stubborn enough to stick it out until its natural conclusion.