Enough of the 'Damn women rejected me' threads please

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Could that be a theory of mind (lack of) thing?

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Seriously though, I'd thing AS females would have more to complain about, at least the males have common gender associated stereotypes we can hide in

Could that be a theory of mind (lack of) thing?

Women aren't suppose to attracted to the opposite sex and if it is...it's only for their money or so I've been told.

Who cares about rejection, get in there and Grab it while you still can, Unless you live on the pressipass of life you won't ever find out what Will be.

You've got to go out and ask a Pretty girl out once in awhile, and if it ends in rejection.

Yesterday I managed to pluck up the courage to Ask my first Girl out on a date.

I'm sick of waiting around, I've got to chase after them If I want a date.

Other wise I'll end up like Steve Carrell

Well, plenty of other fish in the sea

She points in your direction with her leg, foot or shoulders.
She leans toward you while talking.
She plays with or tosses her hair.
She fidgets with a piece of jewelry (like an earring) or strokes the stem of her glass.
She keeps her eyes locked on you while she talks or drinks.
She mirrors your body movements (for example, if you put your hand on the table, she quickly does the same).
She smiling when you check her out.

I've seen a lot of posts lately with the attitude that women somehow owe it to men to go out with them and more, and if a woman turns a guy down, she is a "b***h", is being unreasonable, has the wrong attitude, etc.

All you dudes...you know who you are...please look at yourselves instead of blaming women for not happening to desire YOU. It's not a woman's responsibility to go out with you just because you fulfil some entry level criteria such as not being ugly, buying her stuff or earning a certain amount. It's her life and she has every right to say 'no', whether it's because she'd prefer to stay single right now, or because you are a fair haired Caucasian and she prefers dark skinned men, or whatever. It's her right. Go find someone who DOES want you, like everyone else.

How hard is it to accept that someone choosing you as a partner is a privilege, not an entitlement? Seriously. If I ask a guy out I don't cop an entitled attitude about it, and I don't blame him if he says no. He has no obligation to like me just because I'm not actually deformed or mentally subnormal and I have breasts. He has EVERY right not to desire me. Maybe he prefers being single. Maybe my body language tells him I'm agitated, over-serious, and aggressive (seems to be my default state, LOL). IT DOESN'T MATTER. It's HIS right to reject me and MY job to go find myself a guy who DOES want to be with me. How hard is it to show this basic respect for another human's choices and boundaries??

In a nutshell, before lashing out at women because you feel entitled, ask yourself some questions and give yourself some honest answers.

I'll just wait for them to approach me.

How hard is it to accept that someone choosing you as a partner is a privilege, not an entitlement?

I have never, ever seen a woman approach a man first. I've heard of cases (probably apocryphal) of this happening, but they are very few and very far between. I'll believe it when I see it, and probably not even then.

Nothing is ever free. We are not entitled to sh**.

funny how those who are entitled to the least amount of it end up getting the lions' share of it.

OK, looks like I need to swallow my pride and try my hand at the dating game. But how and where and who should I look for? One of my biggest holdbacks is to how to start the conversation.