Brushing women off!

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Yes, I've done it more times than I ever want to remember. Mostly because I was too zoned out thinking about work and other things. I've sharpened my senses now though .

To avoid being accused of sexual harassment, you just talk to them for a bit and try to make them smile.

Oh come on, look at this game. males constantly trying to find ways to attract and seduce the women into their acceptance, look how hard even on this forum do they try. then compare that to the women and how hard they have to try, the more difficult something is the more people tend to complain. and the women tend to complain a hell of a lot less then men when it comes to trying to attract a common male.. and everyone always wants it to be a little easier, a little better, so there is always going to be complaints against either gender regardless of who has it easier. while in the end, everyone just want to love and be loved and have a happy life. peoples biggest obstacle to that is they place an objective value (or expectation) of what or how they think that love should be upon other individuals, then get frustrated when others do not meet their expectations. IE: Spoiled

The more Options one sex has over the other, the more they want more and become spoiled with expectations, then get frustrated when they do not get what they want, IE a higher divorce rate of one sex over the other, while always having their excuses because of their expectations never being met.

I know I wouldn't want to be with someone of high expectations, I would always be trying to keep them happy instead of just being who I am, whom I at first felt they fell in love with, whom I wanted to fall in love with me for, being my self, not being what others want me to be or think i should be doing for them.

I'm sure I've done this several times without ever knowing it. The fact of the matter is the odds are always going to be much higher that a women will not be interested in me as opposed to being interested so I suppose I play my odds and choose to play it safe by acting like I'm not interested in them in a romantic way and I would assume they feel the same way about me. I mean what am I going to do, ask them if they like me and look like an idiot? Not gonna happen.

[img][800:2900]http://img0.joyreactor.com/pics/post/women-flirting-infographics-1203009.jpeg[/img]hmm interesting I have been ignoring over half those ques.

That's a nice chart. I get a lot of #5 and #12. Most of it is without intent , sometimes teasing.

The double meaning thing really takes a while to process as an aspie male.