Males/ Boys Question:What qualities do you like in a girl?

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DailyPoutine1
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05 Jun 2015, 3:49 pm

Something like this I think:

-Not too skinny or fat
-Openminded
-Cheerful
-Not a b*tch
-Preferably my age, I don't know why NT's are attracted to younger girls.
-Doesn't take drugs
-Dedicated, isn't w/ people only for sex but for actual love.

Ya' know



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07 Jun 2015, 6:02 pm

I would like a woman that is:

-very feminine (behaves and dresses like a woman),
-doesn't rely on plastic surgery to be very beautiful
-non-smoker (I have asthma),
-not a heavy drinker,
-not a gold digger
-not a bigot
-humorous, helpful, sincere
-loves me for who I am



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07 Jun 2015, 7:07 pm

Catlover5 wrote:
- Loves me for who I am and doesn't try to change who I am
- Must be my type; somewhat good-looking at least
- Must not smoke; I have asthma, plus smoking is one of the worst turn-offs for me
- Loyal; doesn't cheat on me

That's about it. All I want is someone for me to love and look after, and to love and look after me :heart:

Thats basic. Talking about what you missed out on.


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08 Jun 2015, 6:09 pm

I suppose for me personally, honesty is the most important thing. I've spent so much time trying to work out what a girl is thinking, I get tired of trying to read the signs, I get tired of playing mind games, I just wanna know where I stand.


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11 Jun 2015, 3:03 pm

-Not a b***h

-Doesn't smoke

-Doesn't drink alcohol and doesn't try to get me to drink alcohol

-Is beautiful

-Will go to the gym with me whenever she wants to

-Has a great sense of humor

-Accepts the fact of me being an Aspie


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15 Jun 2015, 4:37 pm

Fnord wrote:
In other words, the current Mrs. Fnord.


LOL you have plans for another?



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16 Jun 2015, 7:57 am

"Required"
- non smoking
- no pre-existing kids
- healthy weight
- loyal
- friendly
- accepting of my hobbies

"Nice to have"
- tall (~6 foot)
- introverted
- sharing my hobbies



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16 Jun 2015, 6:58 pm

I really like girls who are around 4 ft 11 to 5 ft 3 and have a cute face.

I do have a thing for redheads as well, whenever I see a cute redhead, my heart just melts. I actually fell hard for this redhead girl from like February to May till she moved away.



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17 Jun 2015, 2:47 am

Fnord wrote:
Living, breathing (on her own), free from chronic illness, sane, intelligent, well-educated, good credit, talented, hygienic, reasonably fashionable, reasonably cheerful, reasonably reasonable, patient, compassionate, faithful, temperate, and reasonably good-looking (or better).

No tattoos, no amputations, no surgical 'enhancements', no addictions, no repressed anger or PTSD, no hang-ups about sex, no police or prison record, not prone to playing "mind games", and not having been born male.

In other words, the current Mrs. Fnord.


Hear, hear!


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19 Jun 2015, 9:09 pm

Well, first and foremost, I have to physically attracted to her. Now, I'm not expecting a beauty queen in any way, shape or form. I am no prince after all, and I actually have some rather unorthodox beauty standards. But let's be honest here; if there isn't some measure of physical attraction between both parties, nothing's going to happen.

She also has to be older than me, even if it's just by a few months. That is an absolute requirement. Something about the idea of dating a woman who's younger than me that makes me deeply uncomfortable.

Psychologically, she needs to be patient, direct, caring and kind-hearted. Honestly, like I said in that other thread, I don't really want a wife or partner in the traditional sense. What I really need is someone to guide me, someone to protect me. Someone I can "fall back" on. A "big sister" who'll take care of me and satisfy my emotional, and yes, physical, needs.

But of course that's never gonna happen. Women don't marry men to take care of them, they marry them to be taken care of... :roll:



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19 Jun 2015, 10:31 pm

never had a reason to think about this. I know I like playfulness, but I not in any position to be picky or have any standards.



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20 Jun 2015, 1:13 am

I'd like her to help me start living a (rest of a) life worth telling our future grandchildren.

Might as well dream about what qualities I'd like in a unicorn.


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