Question for guys when looking for a girl...

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Funny thing now is, most of what the OP posted, is what falls under what I would want in a girl, lol. But on the other hand, the person has to be someone I can trust, and feel comfortable around and like me the way I am. No use if they are extremly pretty bit act like idiots :-/

You want her feminist with free will, yet you want to forbid her to work? Go suck a lemon.

i think he means the fact she dosnt have a job, not that she dosnt want one or is allowed one

"unemployed" means "I don't have a job, but I'm looking for one"...

Maybe. It would depend on her interests, and whether we could connect. If she has an "eclectic" taste in music I would definitely put that to the test. Nothing there is particularly off-putting, and some of it is interesting.

Sounds like someone I'd be extremely attracted to.

""would you still give her the time of day?
YOUR HONESTY WILL BE FULLY APPRECIATED HERE! SO, PLEASE DON'T LIE.""

Honestly, yes.
I see things i like on the list and i see
things i couldn`t care less about if i
liked her, dont see any major
problems.

This:
""-straight (meaning she won't make-out with girls for fun like most do, even if her life depended on it.)""

Makes no sense to me, why would i care about if
she made-out with girls or not, either way will do
just fine as long as i get a kiss myself now and
then and as long as she`s happy.

Many men like the sight of two women making out. Even average-looking women seem to turn into the hottest thing ever if they made out, at least according to male hormones... That's part of the reason why the few anti-homosexual verses in the Bible were written explicitly against male-male homosexuality, with almost nothing being written about lesbianism... To me that's proof positive that the Bible, while being divinely inspired by God, was, in fact, written by the hands of men...

""Even average-looking women seem to turn into the hottest thing ever if they made out, at least according to male hormones... That's part of the reason why the few anti-homosexual verses in the Bible were written explicitly against male-male homosexuality, with almost nothing being written about lesbianism... To me that's proof positive that the Bible, while being divinely inspired by God, was, in fact, written by the hands of men...""

em.....ok.....i...think i will be leaving now..
*backs slowly out thread-door*

No, but there is a Truth or Consequences. It's right next to the famed Elephant Butt. Sorry, Butte.

I look different than the original poster, I meant. She described herself with brown eyes and other features I don't have. I blend in with the masses until I pull my shirt up and make my eyes go in different directions while pulling my thumbs all the way back and making inhuman noises. But that's not to say I do that. I'd rather blend in and leave my genetic mutations for those who aren't going to get as scared.

If I had Friends I'd go insane. Actual real friends are bad enough most of the time as it is.

As for being a woman on the spectrum, I wouldn't think it's any different than a woman off the spectrum. I can't tell the difference a lot of the time, anyway. I really can't stand men who are just looking for 'tang,' as it were, so I'm excluding them here.

As I said, finding someone who truly fits is very difficult. I'm still struggling with that and I'm with someone who's supposed to be my match. Long story, I won't get into it.

those two contradict one another if you ask me

I was thinking that, too, but then I figured it was just the only way she could explain her otherwise unexplainable style. I have a hard time describing mine, too. Feminist punk comes to mind, but it still wouldn't fit.

what's wrong with being a virgin? why should that be a big deal? it's better than getting knocked up or have STDs.

90% + of people your age who date only care about sex, and this person doesn't have experience, that's why it matters.

I would say she's......complicated...

What does it mean to "give her the time of day?" Why say that, and not "time of the evening," "time of the night," etc.?

I think I would put up MY qualities, interests, etc. on a dating profile, and my AS, then maybe the woman who'll still want me will be right.